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Relationship Gift Buying Pressures: Find out if You're Exchanging Gifts With a Date!

Category: Dating (general)

With Christmas Eve in one short week, the pressures are mounting! Are you going to exchange gifts with your date/significant other? more...

The Bachelor Semi-Finals: November 13th Episode Re-Cap!

Category: Dating (general)

The Bachelor was full of romance and a few awkward moments this week! The romantic overnight dates including option to stay in the Fantasy Suite commenced! more...

Dating Advice: My boyfriend has a child with his ex!

Category: Dating (general)

Debuting my much-anticipated dating advice column, I have selected the first reader letter. What to do when your significant other or partner has a child with their ex? more...

ABC's The Bachelor: October 23 Episode Re-Cap!

Category: Dating (general)

A shocker to me on tonight's Bachelor as Lorenzo narrowed it down to four girls. Next week the hometown dates are back in the US! more...

The Bachelor: Episode Two Re-Cap!

Category: Dating (general)

Wow, what a Bachelor Episode tonight! I unfortunately missed the premiere last week due to a cancelled flight and being stuck in Chicago's O'Hare Airport. more...

FastDater: Speed Dating

Category: Dating (general)

Have you ever been to a speed dating event or party? I have participated in one of these in the past and they're an extremely fun, fast-paced way to meet new people. more...

Giving Acts of Service: Love Language #3

Category: Dating (general)

Could Acts of Service be the primary way in which you wish to receive love? Does this love language speak louder to you than the others? more...

Offering Words of Affirmation: A review of Dr. Gary Chapman's book The Five Love Languages for Singles

Category: Dating (general)

The language of affirmation entails many dialects - gratitude, encouragement, praise and kindness. How will practicing this language make you fluent in love? more...

Meeting Someone You've Met Online: First date safety tips to protect yourself from reasonable harm and unreasonable expectations.

Category: Dating (general)

Keep these tips in mind when meeting a virtual date for the first time to keep expectations reasonable and to protect yourself. more...

Dating by Phone and Email: Word choice and tone of voice communicate when body language and facial expressions can't.

Category: Dating (general)

In my last article, we examined the elements that combine to convey the message in an in-person communication. more...

Defining the Word Single: Dr. Gary Chapman's characterizes the demographic including unmarried, divorced, separated, widowed, and single parents.

Category: Dating (general)

Should dating and relationships be more formally studied? more...

Long-Distance Relationships: Will you appreciate each other and your friendship more or resent the sacrifices you need to make to be together?

Category: Dating (general)

Are you currently in a long-distance relationship? Have you ever been? This unique relationship type has its own set of pros and cons. more...

Online Dating 101: Are you likely to meet your match using this 'filter' or does the virtual arena promote misrepresentation?

Category: Dating (general)

Ever looked online to meet new dates? Consider these pros and cons before you go for it. more...

Dating An Ex . . . Again!: Why did the relationship end? Who ended it and how much time has passed? What will be different if you reunite?

Category: Dating (general)

Have you recently got back together with an ex-girlfriend or boyfriend? Are you thinking about getting back together with someone you've dated previously? more...

Dating Defined!: How many dates of what nature constitute 'dating' by today's social standards?

Category: Dating (general)

What does it mean if you're dating someone? Apparently this is a word that has almost an infinite amount of definitions! How does the dictionary define dating? more...

Setting Aside a Date Night: Whether in a new or long-term relationship scheduling time for romance means new experiences and insights to share with your partner.

Category: Dating (general)

Are you reading this because you can't remember the last time you had a real one with your spouse or significant other? Get out there! more...

Advantages of Speed Dating: Variety, volume, focus, and comparison mean you get the best fit and the feeling is mutual!

Category: Dating (general)

Still dating only the "conventional" way? Have you ever dabbled in speed dating? Read on, and learn more about speed dating's distinct advantages! more...

Expectations of a Dinner Date: Is companionship, physical attraction, and emotional connection on the menu or will the atmosphere leave you hungry for a different course?

Category: Dating (general)

This article examines the interesting parallels between the progress of the meal and of a date from expectations, to hunger, to satisfaction. more...

Dating vs. Job Hunting: Ready your romantic resume, advertise your talents and availability, and sign on with the best partner.

Category: Dating (general)

Have you ever considered how similar dating is to job hunting? From promoting yourself to looking for opportunities, the two tasks have much in common. more...

The Women Tell All: The Bachelor on ABC

Category: Dating (general)

The cat fight was on on The Bachelor tonight! The famous "The Women Tell All" episode was on. more...

Dating Someone You Work With: A Do or Don't?

Category: Dating (general)

Many of us these days spend more time tied up in our careers than we do outside the office. The office can be a tempting place to look for relationships and love! more...

The Bachelor Rome on ABC: October 30th Episode Re-Cap

Category: Dating (general)

Dates on The Bachelor tonight were primarily over in the United States; the hometown dates commenced! more...

The Bachelor on ABC: October 16 Episode Re-Cap!

Category: Dating (general)

Hooray, Erica went home on tonight's Bachelor!! Or does she; looks like she returns next week. Yikes!! more...

Ending a First Date Politely: When You Don't Want To Go Out Again

Category: Dating (general)

Have you ever been on a first date trying to figure out how to bring it to a cordial close? You don't want to be rude, but . . . . more...

Match.com: A Review

Category: Dating (general)

Have you ever tried match.com to meet new people? Thinking about it but wanting to learn more about it? more...

The Value of Gifts: Love Language #2

Category: Dating (general)

According to Dr. Gary’s Chapman’s “Five Love Languages for Singles,” Love Language #2 is gifts. Is this your primary love language? more...

Thanking Dates for Time Together: Appreciating parents, co-workers, friends, dates, and partners is key to a mature relationship.

Category: Dating (general)

Let's get into examining each of the 'five love languages' previously mentioned. One-by-one articles will come out in the next month regarding each of these. more...

What are the Five Love Languages?: Affirmation, gifts, acts of service, quality time and physical touch can enhance any relationship.

Category: Dating (general)

A discussion of Gary Chapman's The Five Love Languages for Singles. more...

Using Body Language to Advantage: More than half of what we communicate comes from our gestures and expressions. What are you saying without words?

Category: Dating (general)

Follow these tips when communicating with others in your personal relationships. more...

Dating Someone with Children: When should you meet the kids? Who disciplines them? How much time to do spend together?

Category: Dating (general)

Are you dating someone who has children from a previous relationship? Are you re-entering dating with your own children from a previous relationship? more...

Writing an Online Dating Profile: Post a recent photos, be thorough, honest, and emphasize your unique qualities.

Category: Dating (general)

Once one decides to dive in to online dating one of the first steps is creating that online profile. Follows these tips to get off on the right foot. more...

First Date Topics to Avoid: Exes, therapy, medications, odd personal habits, and intimate emotional secrets are too much too soon.

Category: Dating (general)

Once the first date has been secured, one can't help but wonder, "What should we talk about all night?" Some suggestions... more...

Dating After Divorce: Take your time entering the dating field, learn from your past but leave it there, and avoid comparisons.

Category: Dating (general)

Are you re-entering the dating 'scene' following a divorce or the end of a long-term, serious relationship? Read these quick tips to make your return to dating smoother! more...

Dating Outside Type: Are you the best judge of what you need from a romantic relationship?

Category: Dating (general)

Current poll results show you are single & looking but what are you looking for and where? more...

First Date Jitters: Avoid rehearsing a script, be genuine and sincere, and trust that half the battle is getting to this moment.

Category: Dating (general)

You have scored a first date with your crush, but are terrified about the imminent event. Fear not - here's a handy list of how to prepare for the big night. more...

Is he or she Marriage Material?: How and when do you know if someone you're dating could be a partner for life?

Category: Dating (general)

Would you continue to date someone you have realized you will not marry? Read on for the pros and cons of sticking with it. more...

Dating to Meet New People: Is your intention to play the field or find 'the one'? Do you want to get serious or have some serious fun?

Category: Dating (general)

Don't be too quick to assume that the person you're dating is in it for the same reasons you are - communicate your intentions before it's too late. more...

Dating Lessons From The Bachelor: Start as friends, share your hobbies with each other, go slowly, and get the opinions of those who know you.

Category: Dating (general)

Do you watch The Bachelor? Do you wonder what a show like this can teach us about dating and relationships? Here are a few important lessons, learned from this season o more...



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