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STEPPARENTS WORKING AT HOME: PART ONE
Whether working at home in paid or self employment, or as a homemaker, a stepparent deals with a different situation from that faced by someone who works outside the home. Advantages and disadvantages are considered, and sites recommended that offer ideas and support. Part One looks at the stepparent who is a homemaker.
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Advice for Step-Parents
Being a stepparent is a complex, confusing role with unwritten boundaries. It often takes months or years before a family truly feels "blended."
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STEPPARENTS AND ADULT CHILDREN
A remarriage when the children are grown can be a wonderful experience for all concerned, with both families enjoying the stepparent and possibly some stepsiblings. Sometimes, however, the children object, and there are various reasons why that might be.
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STEPPARENTS AND THE LEGAL SYSTEM
Unless stepparents adopt the stepchildren, their legal situation is shaky. Work is being done to alter the situation, and articles are cited that describe proposed changes.
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Issues When Blending a Family
Familiarizing yourself with the possible variables when blending a family will help you facilitate the process
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Bonding with Stepchildren
Bonding with stepchildren can be one of the most challenging aspects of creating a successful family. Taking steps to encourage the bonding process can help.
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Difficult Stepchildren
Stepchildren often feel left out of the decision making process of blended family preparation. This loss of control can manifest itself in feelings of dislike or hate.
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Stepparents: An Introduction
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How to Choose Names for Step-Parents
Children of remarried couples can choose names for step-parents that don't cause hard feelings with biological parents.
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Stepparents: Discipline Revisited - Part 1
Of the many adjustments stepparents have to make when they join their new family, probably disciplining the children ranks as the most difficult. Emphasis is placed on working out house rules with the bioparent, and presenting a united front to the children.
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Creating a Happy Blended Family
When a couple comes together with children from previous relationships, many lifestyle changes will be necessary to avoid hurt, resentment and anger.
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Children of Divorce
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Stepparents and Adoption: Part Two
Questions about stepparents adopting children arrive frequently, so it is time to take a look at what changes have developed since Part One. The courts in some U.S. states have made some adaptations to their Adoption Acts, but the literature suggests that there still is a long way to go.
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STEPPARENTS WORKING AT HOME: PART TWO
Continuing the look at stepparents working at home, this article concentrates on employed or self-employed individuals. Once again, sites are recommended that offer suggestions and support.
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Stepparents and the Other Parent: Part One
The non-resident parent may be totally absent, occasionally around, or present on a daily basis. Whatever the case may be, they are a permanent presence in their children's lives that affects the entire family and needs to be dealt with. Some stepparents find this an easy thing to do, but many have difficulties.
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Stepparents: General Topics, Part 2
A variety of links to sites that look at when a potential stepparent should be introduced to the children, what is the major problem in stepfamilies, why stepparents are so hard on themselves and what to do about it, and the development of trust.
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STEPFATHERS: PART ONE
The challenging role of the stepfather today sometimes involves cooperative guidelines worked out with the biological father. It often means special rewards and challenges resulting from creating a family with his and her biological children. A lot of support and encouragement for the situations that come along is available at internet sites.
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STEPFATHERS: PART TWO
Many new sites for stepfathers have appeared since Part One was written, offering advice, suggestions, newsletters, and support. In addition, there are articles written by a child to her stepfather, and a biological father to a stepfather.
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STEPPARENTS & DIVORCE: PART ONE
There are many ways stepparents are touched by divorce: their own situation, their partner's past experience, or difficulties facing the couple in this new marriage.
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STEPPARENTS & DIVORCE: PART TWO
Divorce is an upsetting event for children, partly because it means a fragmentation of the family life they have always known. Another problem is that children often feel responsible for the breakup, which leads to major stressful feelings. There are ways to help the entire family through this difficult time.
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STEPPARENTS AND ADOPTION: PART ONE
Not every stepparent adopts the partner's biological children, but many do. This isn't necessarily a difficult procedure, and can offer a number of advantages for the family.
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STEPPARENTS AND CUSTODY: PART ONE
One or both stepparents may have sole custody of their biological children, or one or both may share joint custody. There are many possible combinations in a blended family, and numerous challenges associated with each custodial situation.
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STEPPARENTS AND CUSTODY: PART TWO
A continuation of the look at different types of custody arrangements and how families cope with them, including consideration of the legal situation for stepparents.
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STEPPARENTS AND DISCIPLINE
Some families employ discipline as a teaching tool, while others use it as a form of punishment. Most would agree that a household requires rules, but the newly blended family may have two adults who don't agree on what the rules should be.
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Stepparents and Family Meetings
Regular meetings help the stepfamily to build strong bonds and a feeling of being a family. Everyone has a chance to contribute , which helps to keep frustrations from growing. With two families joining together, there are different routines and guidelines that will be altered to suit the new family. Meetings also are a good time for discussing family achievements, or planning vacations.
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STEPPARENTS AND FAMILY TIME
These are busy times, and it is difficult for the family to have meals at the same time, let alone have evenings or weekends to enjoy each other's company. Spending enjoyable time together can do a lot to strengthen the bonds in a stepfamily, and it doesn't have to cost more than a few cents.
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STEPPARENTS AND FINANCES
A major financial challenge often occurs when two families merge. Both parents may bring biological children into the new family, and this puts both mother and father in a planning situation that involves more people than they are used to. Matters other than daily budgeting also have to be considered.
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STEPPARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS: PART ONE
Children are fortunate to have devoted grandparents, and stepchildren can be blessed with more than the usual number because of "extra" ones from a stepparent. Occasionally, circumstances turn grandparents into stepparents.
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Stepparents and Grandparents: Part Two
It's important for children to spend time with their grandparents, and stepchildren often have as many as eight to enjoy. Although it can be a major challenge for the stepparent and parent to arrange visits, research suggests that it is worth the effort.
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STEPPARENTS AND HOLIDAYS, PART ONE
Holidays usually are a time of excitement, ritual, and various traditions, with families gathering together to celebrate and enjoy.
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Stepparents and Marriage: Part Two
In a stepfamily or blended family, there usually is so much going on that the two adults tend to overlook the fact that they need time together. Besides giving them a chance to work through differences in opinions about the home or future plans, it also should at least occasionally allow them an opportunity to simply enjoy each other's company.
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STEPPARENTS AND PROBLEM SOLVING
Although there are potential difficulties in most areas for a newly blended family, there also are many ways of planning in advance to avoid some problems. There are adjustments necessary after the stepparent has moved in, and some of these can be related to the fact that both parents brought biological children to the new family.
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STEPPARENTS AND SCHOOL
Research shows that children do much better at school if their families are involved in the learning process. This also helps a stepparent feel closer to the family. There are, however, legal changes that need to be made before stepparents can become fully active in school-related activities.
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STEPPARENTS AND TEENAGERS: PART ONE
Usually it is easier for younger children than it is for older ones to adjust to a stepparent joining the family. There are a number of ways to ease the situation and to keep open the lines of communication with the older children.
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STEPPARENTS AND TEENAGERS: PART TWO
Teenagers often are confused about who they are, and what they will do with their lives. Dealing with their concerns involves time, attention, and understanding, and can be major challenge for the stepparent.
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Stepparents and the Other Parent: Part Two
Parental Alienation is a controversial topic and a lot has been written about it. The children are manipulated to turn against one parent, or used as messengers to take negative comments back to the other parent. These verbal attacks can be accidental, or they may be carefully planned.
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STEPPARENTS WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOME
Stepparents who work outside the home often feel that they don't have much opportunity to get to know their new family. Although it takes some effort, the problem can be solved, and parents who have faced the challenge offer some tips.
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Stepparents: General Topics, Part 1
Each stepfamily is different from the others, and they also are different from biological families, but "different" isn't a negative word. A number of web sites offer information and support for families who are creating a new home together; they offer an emphasis on commitment to each other, combined with realistic expectations.
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STEPPARENTS: A LOOK AT RELIGION
Interfaith marriages can cause problems in the stepfamily, or they can serve to help all family members enjoy a richness of belief system that spans more than one faith.
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STEPPARENTS: A SECOND LOOK AT HOLIDAYS
It is getting close to holiday season for many people, and this can bring up a number of difficult situations for stepparents. Who do the kids spend Thanksgiving or Christmas with, and how are the decisions made? Some web sites offer suggestions to help keep the fun in the holidays.
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Stepparents: Discipline Revisited - Part 2
There are differences of opinion about how long a stepparent should wait before taking an active role in discipling the children. In addition, one recommended article looks at the difference between discipline and punishment, and what is the main purpose of each.
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Stepparents: Guest Writer's Experiences
Occasionally I receive a letter that is worth sharing with all visitors to this site. The writer agreed to publication of her discussion about what it's like to be a stepparent, as well as being the "other parent."
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STEPPARENTS: MISCELLANEOUS LINKS
A look at the Ten Steps for Steps, feelings about the previous spouse, interventions, loyalty conflicts, and a good marriage as the base for building a blended family.
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Stepparents: The Marriage
The bond between the biological parent and stepparent needs to be strong to help build a family. Not having the luxury of time alone before the children arrive, the couple have to actively work at making time for themselves in order to create the necessary closeness.
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STEPPARENTS: THE NEW BABY
Having a baby together can be a strong bond for the parents in a blended family, but sometimes the other children are afraid that the new baby will push them into the background.
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STEPPARENTS: THE NONCUSTODIAL PARENT
A stepparent may arrive without children, but have a family that lives elsewhere. This presents a unique circumstance which can require special attention.
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STEPPARENTS: VACATIONS
Family vacation time should be an opportunity to relax, enjoy new or old sights, possibly travel a bit, and build some family ties to assist in the development of the new family.
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NEW PARENT: ARRIVING WITH CHILDREN
When the new stepparent arrives with a child or children, there's a new set of potential rewards and problems.
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Stepsibling Relationships
Parents and stepparents may dread intimate relationships among stepsiblings. Steps can be taken to discourage undesireable behaviors among minors.
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Teens and Divorce
The divorce of their parents is among the most stressful events a child will ever have to cope with.
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