aamm667 - Profile
<p>Hi. I am new to this chat. I have read several stories & the responses & some of them have helped. I am facing my most difficult one yet. I have been with my man on & off for 4 years. The off times were when he would split for some off the wall reason. The last time he split because he said that he couldn't stop being mean to me & I didn't deserve it. We had just started renting this huge house, (me, him, my kids & his kids), that was very hard to afford on my own. I had to work 55-60 hours/wk to be able to keep up with all of the bills. We were engaged to be married at that time & he just left. That was his 3rd time leaving.</p>
<p>Two weeks after he left, my phone rang off the hook. He was trying to get me back. He would call for silly things, like to see if I had any extra towels that he could have, or to tell me that he found my sons' socks. After 5 months of him persistantly trying to get me back, I broke down & talked to him. He then told me that he just got diagnosed as BP. He had started taking Symbyax. He said that it helped him so much & that he could think clearly. The more that I talked to him, the more I wanted to know. I blamed BP for him treating me so badly. We got closer & closer until we were back together. Soon after we got back together, he started talking about wanting to get married & have our own baby together. He knew I wanted that more than anything, so it was a plan.</p>
<p>He arranged to have $5,000.00 taken out of his pay this year to help pay for his vasectomy reversal, we went for a consultation with an Oncologist, so I believed it was really gonna happen. Wrong! That was 5 months ago. Since then, he sleeps >14 hours out of every day, is very distant, & now not only does he not want to get married & have a baby, he says he's gonna move to another state to be with his family, WITHOUT ME!!! He says that he needs his family & I deserve better & could be so much happier without him. I have never been treated so badly, but never so wonderful at the same time. I love him with every thing that I have. What can I do? Please HELP!</p>