Lesson 1: Going, Arriving and Getting Around
This lesson deals with important things to consider before leaving for college, things you should know upon arrival and how to make sense of everything at the same time.
Getting started!
The big question when applying to colleges is of course if you want to stay close to home, or for whatever reason move far away. Either that would be out of state, out of the country or just too far to commute. A large percentage of students actually go to a college that is out of commuting distance, and then decide whether to live on residence or off campus. Most first years will opt for residence, because it is a way to really integrate in the college community and make friends fast. Some might choose to live with family close-by, whatever your options are this is an important choice to take note of.
Choosing to live on residence:
There are many different residences and every college is basically unique in how they run theirs. In some, seniors can apply to live on residence and in others it is only meant for first year students. Most residences will be dorms, where you either have your own private room or you share your space with a roommate (or several). Some colleges have a matching system to have people living together that might get along. Regardless there are still horror stories and success stories enough. The key thing to remember is to respect each others privacy, treat your roommate the way you want to be treated and communicate. In many cases first time roommates end up living together all throughout their undergraduate time. Others end up hating each other in the end. Be careful; sometimes a friend can seem like the perfect roommate, until you live together. Just because you are friends, does not mean you will get along great in a living situation. You might have a good time out partying, but if you appreciate your study time and your roomy doesn’t know when to stop, problems can actually arise.
Most residences have a guarantee for first year students; you get in no matter what even if you live around the block. In the latter case, consider if you really want to spend the money for the experience. However, just because you are guaranteed a spot in theory, there are always a few rules: if they do not receive your application in time (factor in the worst case scenario of a slow postal service) or your deposit there is a big chance you loose your guaranteed spot. This is especially the case in residences where senior students are allowed to apply.
Keep in mind that you are going to be living with strangers no matter what. If you are a real loner and don’t want to change residence is not a good option for you. If you on the other hand want to make friends or you want to loose your shy side it can be a great opportunity. Don’t forget that you are living with a diverse group of people, just because someone goes to college does not mean they are to be trusted completely. Don’t be too skeptical but be careful if you don’t know someone too well.
Not only are residences on campus and therefore close to your classes, they also offer social programming. If you are bringing your car be careful; some colleges will make you pay more for residence parking. If you park your car three minutes from your building you could actually save up to $200 in most cases. It’s your choice, but be aware you have it.
