Fibromyalgia

Lesson 2: Medical Resources.

Checklist for Finding the Right Doctor

First of all - do they believe that fibromyalgia is a legitimate medical diagnosis? Run if the answer is no - or even if they hedge!
Does the doctor appear to believe what you are saying? If he or she suggests depression or any reference to it being in your mind, run, don't walk, to another doctor.
Is the doctor willing to be an advocate for you - in other words to help you in filling out paperwork toward a disability claim?
Is the doctor willing to work with other specialists to find the best course of treatment for you?
Does the doctor explain things to you? Or do you have to ask. And if you have to ask, are you getting answers that you understand and can deal with?
Is the doctor willing to read anything you may bring in such as lists of symptoms, articles about treatment possibilities, or even simply lists of your questions (within reason - there are other patients too!) And does he or she show an interest in these materials and discuss them with you?

Remember that doctors have schedules to maintain, and don't expect that you will be able to spend an hour of heart-to heart time during every appointment. But if the doctor you are considering seems to be pretty much OK with all of the above, and also can recommend things to help alleviate your symptoms and help you cope, you're on the right track.

If, on the other hand, the doctor appears to dismiss your questions or concerns, or in any way makes you feel ridiculed, try again.