losing virginity


  1. lover_girlael
  2. Questions79
  3. rickfarell
  4. Melly123
  5. Melly123
  6. Melly123
  7. ashley_r117
  8. monkeyskull
  9. Nakila
  10. Nakila

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Top 41.   May 31, 2006 2:34 PM

» lover_girlael - why didnt it hurt?

the first time I had sex, It didn't hurt at all. I guess it was the last thing I tried. I Love to experiment. When I finally went all the way, it didn't hurt. My friend told me to stop so it wouldn't hurt. She was like me... coach. LOL. I bleed every once in a wile, but I have become a total Ninfo! I love my boyfriend now. He is the only one who has been able to satisfy me.

-- posted by lover_girlael



Top 42.   Jun 7, 2006 5:38 AM

» Questions79 - Girlfriend & Virginity

I am a 27 yr old male and my girlfriend is 23. She was a virgin and I was not. About a month ago we had sex. As you can imagine, the first time was painful and uncomfortable. The two weeks following were ok, no pain (from what she says). However, in the last week or so, she has said that during the initial entry during sex, she is in pain/discomfort. Once I am in, she says it feels good and enjoyable. She is very wet, which leads me to believe that there is sufficient foreplay. In addition, I do take my time upon entry. However, I am concerned that something else might be wrong or that there is something that I can do on my end. Any feedback would be helpful. Is a visit to the doctor warranted or is this normal for someone who is just starting out having sex?

-- posted by Questions79



Top 43.   Jun 28, 2006 3:01 AM

» rickfarell - Losing it

My boyfrind and i are both virgins. He has raised the issue about havin sex with me. The thing is i'm not ready but he insists that we do it or our relationship's over. It may seem like he only depends on sex for the r/s but he constantly tells me he loves me and i know it too. We've been together for around 3 years. I don't know wat to do. I don't wanna lose my virginity yet neither do i wanna lose him. I love him.help!

-- posted by rickfarell



Top 44.   Jul 2, 2006 7:20 PM

» Melly123 - Losing it

Don't do anything that you are not ready for! If he truely loves you then he will wait. If he is telling you that the relationship is over if you don't have sex with him then he does not really love you. Save yourself for your one true love. Not some horny SOB

-- posted by Melly123



Top 45.   Jul 2, 2006 7:23 PM

» Melly123 - so i lost my virginity five days ago and i bleed a very very ver

you could have a urinary tract infection. It can be very common when you are sexually active. If I were you I'd get to a DR right away.

-- posted by Melly123



Top 46.   Jul 2, 2006 7:25 PM

» Melly123 - Girlfriend & Virginity

It is normal. I still sometimes have intial pain upon entry and I've been sexually active well over 10 years. As long as there is lots of foreplay and she is really wet it should be all good.

-- posted by Melly123



Top 47.   Jul 13, 2006 2:50 AM

» ashley_r117 - should i do it?

IM REALLY YOUNG...
BUT IVE BEEN WITH THIS GUY FOR ALMOST A YEAR.HES MY BEST FRIEND,REALLY MY EVERYTHING...WE GOT ON THE TOPIC OF SEX A FEW MONTHS AGO BUT I WASNT READY.I DONT KNOW MUCH ABOUT IT OR WHAT I SHOULD ESPECT FROM IT.IM CURIOUS AN I WANT TO GIVE MYSELF TO HIM,BUT AT THE SAME TIME,I DONT KNOW IF ITS WORTH IT.DOES ANYBODY HAVE ANY ADVICE OR INFORMATION? ID REALLY APPRECIATE IT

-- posted by ashley_r117



Top 48.   Jul 15, 2006 3:31 AM

» monkeyskull - PLEASE HELP ME!!!

I have a question can you lose you virginity from a dildo???? cause i used it like i always do but after i started to bleed and i got really scared. cause i am younger ?? years old. Could i be on my period? Please help me!!!

-- posted by monkeyskull



Top 49.   Jul 19, 2006 12:30 PM

» Nakila - Losing it

dear rickfarell,in my opion i really think you should sit down and talk to your boyfriend.i know that you love him and all,but you should have more respect for yourself and so should he.if he dont accept you for not wanting to have sex with him then he isn't accepting you.if he is willing to throw away a relationship just because he isn't getting any,then its very clear that he is not the one for you.

-- posted by Nakila



Top 50.   Jul 19, 2006 12:37 PM

» Nakila - should i do it?

dear ashley,its really yuor choice if you want to lose your virginity or not.if you think you'r eto young,wait.if you think he's not the one,wait.and if you feel that its right,i personally want to tell you that you should consider having sex with a boy with a smaller penis because you could really be putting your body in danger.yo u could have side effects of to much bleeding,and if the penis is to big and punches inside of you too hard,you couls risk the factor of not having a baby when you get older.

-- posted by Nakila



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