Swinging

» sara_in_sf - bringing up the subject of swinging

Swinging is something I never thought I'd be interested in, but a recent event has changed me. I'm a school teacher and recently I lead an overnight camping trip for a school club. A parent came along as a volunteer to help chaperone the kids. He was a divorced man and to make a long story short, we had a most fulfilling fling. Again, cheating is something I never thought I'd do, but I could tell he was well endowed and I just couldn't help myself. We are still loves and we meet whenever an oppertunity arises.

I don't feel good about cheating on my husband, but I know find myself in love with 2 men. My husband provides me with the security I need and my lover provides me with the excitement and pleasure I never knew I was missing. What I would reallly like to do is explain the situation to my husband and be open about having another man in my life. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to bring up the subject? I don't want to hurt his feelings, or make him feel inadequit. I want him to know that this is something I need and I hope he loves me enough to allow me to have it.

-- posted by sara_in_sf

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