So, What is Abuse?: Re: Re: just understanding the emotional abuse

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Top 1. Feb 20, 2006 12:52 PM

» RECRUITER1967 - Re: Re: just understanding the emotional abuse

In response to Re: Re: just understanding the emotional abuse posted by ididitiamfree:
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DEARVICTIM:
ONCE AGAIN I NEED TO SAY THAT I AM VERY MUCH IN PAIN. SEE I HAVE WRITTEN A LOT TO PEOPLE WHO ARE IN THE SAME BOAT OR SIMILAR SITUATIONS.
MY HUSBAND KEEPS BLAMING ME FOR WHAT HAS HAPPENED WITH THE ABUSE. IT IS SUCH A LONG STORY BUT HE IS STATING THAT HE DID NOTHING WRONG AND THT I AM MENTALLY SICK. HE HAS SAID I AM TWISTING AND MAKING UP STORIES SO PEOPLE WILL FEEL SORRY FOR ME.
MY COUNSELOR HAS TRIED TO HELP ME AND KEEPS INSISTING THAT HE IS AT FAULT YET HE STATES THAT I HAVE DESTROYE OUR MARRIAGE AND HE WANTS ME GONE.
HE SAID IF I DONT LEAVE HE WILL LEAVE OR THROW ME OUT.
I AM FEELING VERY GUILTY AND THAT I HAVE CAUSED THIS.
HE SAID HE WAS PERFECTLY NORMAL BEFORE HE MET ME AND THAT I CREATED SUCH PRESSURE AND PAIN AND MORE PAIN FOR THE WHOLE TIME WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR FIVE YEARS.
I AM CRYING OUT AND I FEEL SO CONFUSED THAT I DONT KNOW WHO TO BELIEVE HIM OR MY COUNSELOR.

-- posted by RECRUITER1967