Leveraging the Children

» Amazon1964 - This is my life

Wow...it is amazing, it is as if you are writing about my ex husband and he was the model for your article.
My 2 sons ages 14 and 15 live with their father, my 15 year old has been with him for over 2 years now. He used to call me 10 or more times a day to tell me what a money hungry whore I was, all the while I could hear his father in the background telling him what to say.
My 14 year old only moved in, or wait as he stated ran away from me, to live with his dad a month ago. It has been hard, but I do not bad mouth about their dad.
This all started because I had a brief affair on my husband, he found out and made my life a living hell before I finally left.
It would take writing a novel to tell what I have been through in the last 6 years of my life.
I try to stay positive because I love my kids, and we were very close when they were young, that is one thing my ex can never take from me....
My memories...
I have a tentative relationship with my boys, I just took them to dinner last night and we laughed and had fun like nothing had ever happened. Then I had to take them back to their dad, I hope to see them again soon...
If anyone else is going through this, please write so we can at least give each other support, there is hope, just never lose touch with your kids, always let them know you love them, even when vile words come out of their mouths...
I know my ex does this to punish me for what I did to him. He even has told me he will find a woman better than me and give them a new mother and will replace me. (which I know he can never do, you only have one mother)
Love and forgivness is the answer, but it is very hard to forgive him for what he is doing...
But I am trying...

-- posted by Amazon1964

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