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- ithurts123
- samvak
- mamii
- ppate
- samvak
- cateyez
- Ashleigh13
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» ithurts123 - i read it now what...
Yes he does, now , what. I realized im being abused but now what......thanks for making me realize it...
-- posted by ithurts123
» samvak - thank you
In response to thank you posted by ppate:Paula is referring to this article:
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faq80....
Sam
-- posted by samvak
» Ashleigh13 - verbal and mental abuse
In response to verbal and mental abuse posted by cateyez:cateyez
I had a very hard time myself realizing that I needed to get out of a very abusive relationship too. I was with this guy for 6 years and engaged the last year we were together. Not to mention we moved over 3000 miles away from our families when he proposed to experience life together, we did alright...all the abuse both verbal and emotional. I know everybody's got their own breaking point, but I know I am happier and healthier since I've left him. I still get sad sometimes, but I'm sad for the fantasy of what I wanted and not what I actually had because that was horrible and I'd never wish that on anyone. I don't know if this will help you, but it's good to know there are other people who have gone through exactly what you're going through now. It will be a year since I left him this next weekend and yeah it still hurts, but nothing hurts like the person you love treating you like you're worthless because they are insecure and scared themselves. Good luck!
Asheligh
-- posted by Ashleigh13
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