Some Things Are Better Left Unsaid... Aren't They?

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  1. Zanzi
  2. jerrib
  3. uncertain

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Top 1.   Jul 13, 2004 12:09 PM

» Zanzi - Great Wisdom!

We only tell one another what we would tell our best friend - which is absolutely everything.

It's not the truth that destroys marriages - it's what is left unsaid that destroys marriage!

Excellent article and excellent observations. I look forward to reading more of your wisdom...the wisdom of someone who has obviously been there, done that, and is now willing to share her observations and knowledge.

Congratulations on the launch of your topic!

-- posted by Zanzi



Top 2.   Jul 17, 2004 2:56 PM

» jerrib - Great advice

You have to have truth and trust in a marriage or it will not last!

-- posted by jerrib



Top 3.   Aug 31, 2004 12:04 PM

» uncertain - Re: Great advice

In response to message posted by jerrib:

How can you have truth when your partner won't talk about the things that are not right in the relationship? How can trust be there when you feel they are holding something back? How do you try to build anything when there is only silence because if you speak it may lead to an argument? My only hope now is God shows me the way but after years of this, I'm so tired I don't know if I would recognise it. Can you suggest a way for me to approach the topics I need to without causing more problems?

-- posted by uncertain



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