You're Pregnant...Now What?
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- Monica15
- Tery01
- Dannii
- baby_trey
- baby_trey
- brownlicious
- horsefire106
- Cattb
- lmaluccio
- tigeress454
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» Tery01 - WAIT!
In response to I need your opinions please posted by Monica15:Hi Monica,
Please read my true teenage pregnancy experience here: http://www.alwaysthinkingofyou.com and click on True Stories.
I know that you probably think that having a baby will be cute, fun, and wanting to love someone and have someone love you back is wonderful, but this is not the way to go about getting what you want right now.
There is more to being a mom and having a cutesy baby.
You have to feed it and to feed it, you have to work and make money. You have to buy clothes and pay for medical expenses as babies get sick all the time and they need their immunization shots. How can you do this while you are in school?
Babies wake you up at night (all hours of the night) because they need to be fed and their dirty diaper needs to be changed. You will end up not having too much of a young life and is that what you really want?
Having a baby is a BIG responsibilty and it will be your responsibility as you would be the parent. It is not your parents responsibility.
Is there a planned parenthood in the area you live? You should sign up for this class. It is a wonderful organization that will help you to realize that having a family right now is not in your best interest.
You will be a mom someday. Most women are. But I hope that you wait until you are ready financially and emotionally. Once you have a baby, you are not number one anymore, you are not first, your baby will be first and all the money you make must go to that child.
You still have your junior prom and senior prom to look forward to. Enjoy your young years because believe me YOU are young only once.
Good Luck
-- posted by Tery01
» Dannii - Re: i need your opinions
In response to I need your opinions please posted by Monica15:Hi monica, i think if having a baby now is what you want go for it i didn't plan my pregnacy but im loving it this is my third baby i have a set of twin boyz and a little girl on the way on may 18th. its great and im glad i had my boyz at 14
luv lots and lots Dannii
-- posted by Dannii
» baby_trey - Re: I'm 14 and having a little boy
In response to I'm 14 and having a little boy posted by pugglebabe:hey i'm sort of in the same exact positions my baby boy i due october 1. hope we can become friends
-- posted by baby_trey
» brownlicious - i think iam pregnant!!!!!!!
well im a 14 bout to be 15 average girl that's been having sex i know u your not suppose to till u git married but thing change,but back to what i was saying me and my boyfriend have had sex 5x and the 6xth time we didn't use a condom,but he didn't nut in me but he did pre-nut,so i was thinking could i be pregnant,cause i have been filling lowsy and all that other stuff.but if any of u ladies(gurls) can help me or give me some advice,or maybe tell me some symptoms.cuzz see the problem is i don't really talk to my mother cause we don't really have mother daughter relationship so if yall wanna talk or anything or maybe help me reply to my post>or email me at tweetyprincess042000@yahoo.com make sure u notify me of who you are!!!!!!!thanx-- posted by brownlicious
» horsefire106 - What do you think?
I am about to turn 18 in 3 months and I have just found out that if I dont have a baby now I will never be able to. All I have ever wanted was a baby and I ave thought about having one before but knew it would be better to finish school first. I will not graduate till 2007 but I really want to have a baby. Education is something I could handel and I was the one who raised my neice when my brothers wife went through the really bad depression so I know what I am getting my self into. I loved every minnet of it, even the 4 am diper changes, but what I really am not sure of is the money situation. I have a good mother so I know she would help some but I want to be the one raising my chiled and not relie on my mom or day care all the time. Do you girls have any advice? Please E-mail me back at Fallingjadastar@aol.com, thank you!-- posted by horsefire106
» lmaluccio - Re: I need your opinions please
In response to I need your opinions please posted by Monica15:Hey monica, im lauren and i think if you want a baby go right ahead and get pregnant. i just turned 14 a few months back and i just found out im 2 months pregnant. so far its been fun cuz i can almost feel the little person inside my tummy and it was fun to feel my boyfriend nut in me to get me pregnant. good luck having a baby monica
-lauren
-- posted by lmaluccio
» tigeress454 - Re: I need your opinions please
In response to I need your opinions please posted by Monica15:don'tont want to sound harsh but as a 15 year old i do not think u are ready to have a baby you might seem ready byour ur not. heI'm im 20 and i found out my pregnant aim im not ready. for a person to be able to bring another life into this world is a very serious thing. it takpatientnts aa lotlot of time and money whichdon'tont think a 15 year old has. my baby's dad is helping me out with money so i can eat good and everything. so please wait untyour ur ready
-- posted by tigeress454
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