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» Manda19 - Need advise
Hey hun im 18 turning 19 in a month and my baby is due in 9 weeks. I am in the same situation as you are the father of my baby is such an ass he is so mean to me he told me that if i really cared i would have gotten an abortion and i hate him for trying to make me choose, he has said alot of cruel things to me and it hurts cause he is my my first love and regardless i will always love him but if he is gonna be like that than i know im better off as much as it hurts.....What they dont understand is that with a situation like this ofcourse were gonna be emotional and putting us down about it will only make it worse....Honestly dont get rid of the baby, just cause he makes u feel that way, i actually went to clinic to get an abortion and walked right out i just couldnt do it if ur a strong girl than u will make the right choice i know u can..sometimes i feel hopeless but theres a brightside to everything.........dont do something because he says u should or makes u feel like u should do what u think is right follow ur heart but once u start to feel the baby move inside u u cant let go..............-- posted by Manda19
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