The Mind of the Abuser: Re: Does RET help abuse victim 'deal' with narcissist?
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In response to message posted by motnam:Dear motnam,
Hi. I just read your message and though I have no answer I wanted to offer my support and also ask that if you get an answer to this question would you please pass it along to me. I am just learning about all of this (in the last two weeks) after 18 years of marriage and am finally beginning to see that what my family has been going through has an actual definition and description and that there are others that can understand and relate. What a relief! To know I'm NOT crazy and am NOT the "source of all the problems". I want to help him but he still needs me to be his excuse. I stopped being it and he left me. Now he wants me back. I am reeling from what I've discovered. It's almost harder to accept than ME being the problem. (ME I can change.) I am brokenhearted for me and for my boys. My world has fallen apart and I am looking for answers right now to try and put it back together. (But not the same way!)
You seem like someone who is also looking for answers. If you find any, please let me know. God bless you,
taximom
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