How Victims are Affected by Abuse: the affects of abuse...
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Yes, abuse has lasting affects, no matter how minor or major. It takes alot of courage and strength to "come back" when we have endured any kind of abuse, especially if it was over many years. Many times, it isn't recognized right a way...but as time goes by, and the abuse becomes more frequent, we start putting the pieces of the puzzle together. We learn to recognize what things meant, and what encounters were actually abusive behavior. It encompasses emotional, verbal, mental, spiritual and physical. It can be a challenging pursuit to conquer, and it takes time, but it can be done. I speak from experience. I am going through a major life change after 23 yrs of marriage, with many ups and downs. But I feel better now than I have in a long time. Knowledge is the key. Acceptance is important as well. I offer my support and encouragement to anyone who needs it.-- posted by ruby43
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