Sex Appeal
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» Shell - Although there is no exact mold to a sexy man, in my opinion, th
Although there is no exact mold to a sexy man, in my opinion, there are certain aspects which are most appealing to me. I'm not looking for this "perfect by appearance" man, or anyone at all, just stating what works for me!- As far as clothing goes, I find nothing more sexy than a pair of jeans (preferably Levi's) and a t- shirt. So, I guess I most appreciate a casual, comfortable look.
-I like longer hair styles, straight, mainly brunettes
-The sexy features to me are: sensual lips, deeply passionate eyes (color really doesn't matter), and an intimate voice,
-Body-wise, I am most drawn to men with bigger builds, especially strong arms, legs, chest, and broad shoulders. However the height and weight play into that is fine, as long as that is taller than me, without being overpowering.
-For shoes, sneakers or boots are good (again, the casual scene)
-any car can be sexy with the right guy behind the wheel--although I'd cross off the station wagons, vans, and super-flashy sportscars)!
-gestures that hold the most sex appeal include: smiles, voice...guys that are very masculine in the way they present themselves.
-mind is definitely a crucial element to sexiness, in my book...not the genius, know-it-all type, just someone capable of holding and sparking intelligent conversation, with a mind of his own, and who can teach and offer his wisdom as well as being open for learning.
-free form of what is sexy: sexiness should always come from within to be true..like being simple, yet sexy, yet not aware or concerned with how much so...not someone who is overly into their looks or image, but someone that is real, confident, and wholesome! Put that combination on a Harley, and the lava may just bubble!!
-- posted by Shell
» Douglas_Giles - I am surprised - you get many visitors but so few posts. Maybe
I am surprised - you get many visitors but so few posts. Maybe be are embarassed to admit they are sexual creatures. Well, I may have given up on romance myself, but in the spirit of sparking discussion, I'll answer your questionaire.What is sexy in a woman to me:
- clothing - casual, whether that be jeans, skirts, shorts, whatever, when you are comfortably dressed you give off great vibes
- hair - long thick dark hair
- eyes - color doesn't matter, but I like deep expressive eyes steeped in wisdom with a hint of mischief
- body - not fat nor model-like anorexic. muscle tone is sexy
- shoes - barefoot, or sandals
- car - anything but a minivan
- gestures - smiles, laughter, openness, assertiveness
- mind - nothing is sexier than an intelligent mind -- an open-minded intellectual who can discuss all sorts of matters and is passionate about them
- other - free form of what is sexy - one who is confident in themselves without being pretentious, knows what they want out of life and aren't afraid to get it. Also, one who has beliefs and convictions and is willing to stand up for them and bring beauty to the world. Most important: being healthy and fit in mind, body and spirit and loves life.
Well, those are my thoughts and feelings.
Douglas Giles
Contributing Editor
Progressive Politics
-- posted by Douglas_Giles
» tropdefemme - What is "sexy" anyway?
To me, character is sexy. John Malkovich. David Letterman. Never Sean Connery, too overdone... Intense eyes are a must, but that's about where my fantasy man stops. He's faceless. But what makes him sexy is how he makes me feel. I have had relationships with a variety of "looks," and it was that intimate connection that drove me wild. If I love him, he's perfect. That's it.-- posted by tropdefemme
» TriNeo - What I find sexy in a guy...
Hmmm...this is a tough one.I think that what I find most sexy about a guy is his voice, and his relationship with God. If a guy has a masculine voice, I melt.
It's also important to me that he has eyes that you can see his soul in, a good listener and a compassionate and truly caring person. I generally find that I like guys with brown eyes and wavy brown hair (NOT curly).
I also find hands very attractive, I don't know why...=0)
Other than that, I don't really notice the way a guy looks, but I love a guy who is affectionate, compassionate, caring, loving, loyal and dedicated.
Being a strong Christian, it's hard to find people with the same values, and so I don't date much...
I think I'm going to have to start paying attention to what attracts me to a certain guy...so this will have to be "TO BE CONTINUED".
-- posted by TriNeo
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