Teen girls dating older boys: As long as you care about eachother..

» ThEmIsNear - As long as you care about eachother..

Hi everyone. I feel relieved that I'm not the only one that has had problems with this. I'm seeing a guy that's amazing. He's decent, he's mature, but also has a sense of fun and humour. It's strange, because I've never been able to 'click' with anyoen like this. My name's Emma, I'm 15, and I'm seeing a guy who's 21. (6 year age gap). I would like to tell you my story. After a few months of sneaking out to meet him, we thought it'd be best to tell my parents about this. My mum's unstable at most times - she can't control herself, she easily has breakdowns. My dad didn't seem to mind what I did, as lond as I didn't get into any trouble. Sound ok? Believe me, after I told my dad this, it wasn't. I thought he'd understand, but he obviously didn't see what I saw in him. He wasn't interested in meeting him at all, which is strange because it'd be the first thing i'd like to do and waht any parent would like to do. When my mum heard, she started to tell me how I'd betrayed them. After a few hours, I found no other option but to harm myself. I picked up a pair of scissors, and played my arm klike a fuckin' violin. But, after all of this suffering, I didn't let go of my boyfriend. Because, nothing can stop us. He swears that he's not going to let go. Of course he doesn't like to see me get hurt. But, he's willing to wait 10 more months (which is when I turn 16!) UNTIL WE SEE EACHOTHER IN PUBLIC.

The point I'm trying to make is that don't let go if you think he's worth it. I warn you - if you tell your parents the first thing they'll think is 'PAEDOPHILE'. But, don't let them get that into your head. Because you know this guy alot more than your parents. Please, don't let your parents get in the way. I'm still planning to see this 21 year old guy in secret until I turn 16 = which is when my parents can't do anything about it. So, please, don't give up. If anyone is willing to share their problems, then please feel free - i know exactly what your going through. I warn you, it'll be hard, but if you love eachother, it'll DEFINITELY be worth it.

I would do anything for the man that I dearly love. Although we can't regularly meet up or speak to eachother, we both know that it'll be worth it. dont be disheartened because of age. it really doesn#t matter at all.

-- posted by ThEmIsNear