teen cutting herself, going into rages and abusing alcohol
- justwanna_beme
- vampyrokat
- stupidblond660
- amcgowan26
- WhOsBaBy
- vampyrokat
- meg3425
- Andy2004
- quiqui_1baller
- quiqui_1baller
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» justwanna_beme - SCHOOL RESEARCH
Hello everyone.I'm a 17 year old student at high school and I have an ISU (Independent Study Unit) due for a class of mine. The class is Writer's Craft, where we learn about the real craft of writing. I've decided to do my ISU on something that I can really relate to, cutting and suicide. But, it must contains 10 pages of research. So, I was wondering if any of you would like to share your story with me for my ISU. It would help alot. What I'm looking for is your reasons for cutting, how you feel when you do it and how you feel after. I'm also looking for the same with attempted suicides. All your help would be appreciated.
I can be contacted through my email justwanna_beme@hotmail.com or through msn messenger neko_yuy@hotmail.com.
Thank you.
-- posted by justwanna_beme
» vampyrokat - Re: SCHOOL RESEARCH
In response to message posted by justwanna_beme:its probably too late now but i also cut myself and if u wanted to ask me questions on it.. my instant messege screen name is vampyrokat and thats my e-mail @ aol also... if anyone else has questions about and is worried abt there child they r welconme to contact me....make sure to title the subject line..... i can help kids and parents on it
-- posted by vampyrokat
» stupidblond660 - i need adivise on wat to do
well anyways i have these 2 friends and they are cutting themselves with whatever they can get their hands on. I have told a counsler but that hasnt helped i have no idea wat to do and its getting worse. they just dont understand i cant afford to lose another friend. One of my friends r even doing it on her legs and no really cares but me. well i hope someone can help me.-- posted by stupidblond660
» amcgowan26 - Re: Re: SCHOOL RESEARCH
hi i'm 18 years old and i have heard of a new kind of self inficted pain. it is that the person takes an eraser to their body and rubs quite hard untill it bleeds and turns green and pusses. i was told about this and was wondering if you have heared of such a thing, and if you knew why that is such an alternitive if you have any inform,ation for me i would greatly appreate it thanks you can e-mail me at amcgowan26@yahoo.com-- posted by amcgowan26
» WhOsBaBy - Re: Re: Re: Cutting help please......
In response to message posted by appealoftherare:I think what you said was good I know where your coming from but my mom didn't find out but some of my friends did.but anywayz I just wanted to say that I thought that was good so bye
-- posted by WhOsBaBy
» vampyrokat - Re: Re: SCHOOL RESEARCH
In response to message posted by vampyrokat:i would like to make a retraction to my previous statement that "you may contact me". pleez do not contact me. i refuse to take the responsibility for your actions. its a cruel world, deal with it.
-- posted by vampyrokat
» meg3425 - Re: Re: Re: Cutting help please......
In response to message posted by appealoftherare:Hi, I myself cut, I was very suicidalespeciallyly after my younger cousin (12) killed himself, we were VERY closeAnywayys, I still do it, not so much to die any more. But just c/c it feels so good. No it doesn't take away any real pain, but creates it. I love to feel the pain, love to see my blood drip. It's crazy I know. It is very addictive. Once you start, it's so hard to stop. My parents sent me to counselorer and an APU in the hospital. I still cut, and my parents freaevery timeme they see my scars or new cuts. I wish they would know that I don't want to die anymore, but that it feels good. Yes self-mutilation, I'm into it.
-- posted by meg3425
» Andy2004 - Re: Re: Re: Re: Cutting help please......
In response to message posted by meg3425:Ok, I'm a 15 year old guy. I have a really close friend (15 also, a girl) who cuts herself. Well, she never really told anyone about it, she did it in the winter and wore long sleeves to hide the cuts for awhile. Her parents found out and got her some help, and for awhile she stopped I guess. She told me everything one afternoon, and none of us (us being her friends) knew about it. Still none of her friends know except me. A ton of crap just happened in her life and she cut herself again. She showed me the cuts, and no one else. I feel like she trusts me and I gotta help her, and I really want to, but I'm not sure how. If anyone could help me that would really really be awesome, maybe a girl who cut - if you told a friend, what would be the best possible thing that that friend could/could've done to help you?
Thanks
-- posted by Andy2004
» quiqui_1baller - Hi my name is quita
Hi my name is quitaIt all started back in April,I started to drink and party so much I couldn't think all I could think of was the past and drinking was the only thing helping at the time. When I was growing up I was rape and sexually abuse by family members from age 6-15 I never told anymore other then my best friends until that day I walk into her office, I was so afraid but not alone I couldn't believe what I was saying I couldn't believe I was telling it all...Weeks later we told my mom but not the whole storie..weeks later we seek to find me more help...I talk to counselor at a YWCA Center it was okay...weeks later I left home for the summer to visit my grandma When things couldn't get better- I was in the bathroom I look to my right and there it was a Razor with my name on it I grab it and before i knew it I was cutting away...I couldn't believe what I had done- once it was over- but to be honest I wasn't so upset anymore and I felt like I was able to breath...It's funny but all so true...I continue to cut myself whenever I was upset or couldn't stop thinking about the past... till this day I do that I don't know why and it hard to explain to people who don't want to hear nor understand it but they always seem to ask why...But I am here to speak up for every cutter We do it for odd reason and some do it for a reason- It makes the pain pass us for a hot second, it makes us relax and forget about all the bad things that are build up in the inside! but it want help because cutters we can't do it alone believe me I have tired and to be even honest there are people out there who have more cuts, cuts they can't even hide because it has got that bad but stand up and try to make a change with me, we all need to do it together even when we feel like it, lets try to but a smile on our face not run to the bathroom I know I don't do what i wrote above but that's what I think and that's what I want to do make a change and refresh myself
-- posted by quiqui_1baller
» quiqui_1baller - Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Cutting help please......
In response to message posted by Andy2004:If a close friend told you that she cuts don't run and tell on her right away sit down and ask her why get as much out of her as you can...Trust me I know I'm a cutting and I would hate it if my friend someone I trusted told on me..It helps to listen for awhile and like my friend did was talk me into seeking help by telling me sad things like she wouldn't want me to die and leave her just the little things that made me feel bad and believe they do work because we might harm and hurt ourselves but we wouldn't want to hurt others so try talking to a friend if she tells you she cuts, try telling her everything is going to be okay if gets help and talk about it-and that you are here for her No matter what you have to be strong as well as she does and it's okay to cry I found that out the hard way...Just open up to her call her alot, grow a stronger relationship with her, open up as opened minded people you might be thinking wow! a cutter is telling me this lol yes but I cut when I was so piss and I think so hard when I am done and when I sit down and hear what people say and how close friends and family feel about it I think all thee above WHY.. I stop cutting myself for about 2 till 3 weeks almost because my grandma came to me crying and my close friends broke down and spoke out how they felt and how they didn't want to lose me but for some reason I found that part that I never let go and had to cut- Just be a somebody and take that big step and hand out your helping hand! Fare well
-- posted by quiqui_1baller
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