Children in Ritual

Top 2. Dec 3, 2004 1:42 PM

» terpette - Re: Kids in ritual?

And of course, the one that doesn't *have* kids yet responds... *g*

I definitely agree that kids have a place in ritual, and I enjoyed your article... based on my experiences with children that attend my coven's rituals, you hit the nail on the head with ever age group.

Personally speaking, I don't think I'd take my own kids to a group ritual until they're old enough to not disturb others... toddlers and babies would be too much work, I think. Kids who've started school, though, should be able to sit quietly enough.

Of course, there's always exceptions to the rule. I don't mind kids of any age in circle as long as they aren't a distraction or making a nuisance of themselves. Then again, I feel the same way about adults in circle!

I wouldn't have any problem taking my (future) kids to public rituals or festivals, but the events would definitely have to be "family oriented". I know a lot of festivals have clothing-optional areas, some can't legally allow minors (for whatever reason) and others just have a reputation for being a wild party. None of those would be good environments for a child.

-- posted by terpette

Top 3. Dec 3, 2004 7:11 PM

» PandoraB - Re: Re: Kids in ritual?

In response to Re: Kids in ritual? posted by terpette:

It's really a judgement call. I've been to several public Pagan public events, most of which have successfully included kids so it can be done. It just takes patience, a little extra planning, and a good sense of humor.

-- posted by PandoraB

Top 4. Dec 4, 2004 7:41 AM

» terpette - Re: Re: Re: Kids in ritual?

In response to Re: Re: Kids in ritual? posted by PandoraB:

And also good kids, I think. Too many parents just let their children run amok everywhere, and that's one of the big issues the childless have with kids, and in most cases it isn't even the kids' fault. It's the parents.

Karen

-- posted by terpette