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- Bobalou
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» Bobalou - The right to dress
I have been dating a man for 5 years who is now 64. I'm almost 52. I am a size 6 and dress with what I consider good taste, with class and feminine. I went to a wedding Sat. and he had a fit because he claimed my breast were showing. He has done this on like 3 occasions. However, he is always telling me I am showing my boobs to the men! He claims men come into my office just to see my boobs! If anyone has shopped lately, everything on the market is looking like lingerie. I do not wear this stuff...but I cannont help if a top is rounded or v neck.. This was a scooped neck, but nothing more revealing than clevege. He says he'll never marry a woman who will go out looking like that! I am a very conservative, attractive granny and my argument is....you should love me for me! Not so many conditions ~ let the little things ride! If I looked like a street walker, then you might have a case! AND if you're that prudish why do you believe in sex outside of marriage. He says I show him no respect...I say if you respected me, you would not push me for sex outside of marrige! Any suggestions aside from running!?!-- posted by Bobalou
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