how can you tell if a girl likes you

» dasdunit - so confused

I have a friend i've known her for about 5 months, the first time i met her, me n her just clicked, we talked all the time, one problem i faced was that she had a boyfriend. So ya, after the first day we met, we started to chill together alone alot n when we were with group of friends me n her were always together. well durin those times i always questioned myself if she rlly liked me but she still has a boyfriend. me n her talk about anything and trust each other. this was during the summer, we hung out alot n she told me her personal secrets n everytin, her mom likes me haha n all that(no dad divorced sad thing) so anyways, nothing happend between the both of us during the summer. school came september passed never chilled with anyone, october came i chilled with her once n when we were on the couch she rested her head on me, nothin happend, so november came n i fell for another girl, when i did chill with the girl in november wit group of friends i didnt pay much attention to her, stupid me, n dat was the time she broke up wit her bf, so then they got bak together week later or sometin. AND so december comes, i drop by her work couple times, so anyways i came over to her house jus me n her talkin bout anytin, n she still thinks i like this girl(well i do sort of but i prefer her) so ya i got her a very nice gift when icame over she was sooo happy n sayin she about to cry n showin off to her friend that came over n her mom. so we got to the discussion bout ppl we like or w/e, n talkin bout this girl i like n what i should do n she talkin bout her bf, she mentions she "loves" him or sometin but iunno n that she hasnt seen him for like a week n jus feels that the longer she doesnt see him the more she misses him. they been together for nearly 8 months. i feel as if we r makin each other jealous or something lol, but we r always comfortable with each other...im jus wondering if i should keep going for her and i kno she still likes being with me. she even had to tell her bf a week ago that she liked me(o ya i forgot to mention she told me that she liked me durin the summer but it wouldnt have been fair for her bf or w/e bs) so she told him bout how we chilled alot in summer n he got mad at her or w/e...Im just really wondering if i should jus keep goin for her till sometin happens cuz its been so long cuz i always come out empty handed becuz of my stupid unselfish decisions i make so that others dont suffer my pain of loneliness like me. cuz i seriously dont like havin to break up ppl jus becuz of me...so ya now i dunt care cuz im jus sufferin too long, plz someone help me wit this decision

-- posted by dasdunit

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» csmith2009 - Re: older girl...i'm confused

look i may not know much, but i do know that they are hard to understand. I was working a craft show with some of my freinds to earn money to go to florida for band, and the girl who i just started liking started hanging out with me all of a sudden. She would talk to me, tell me how nice i was and stuff. She would run to catch up with me and i catch her looking at me. But alas, a few days later i recieved a not saying the i heard you thought i was flirting with you but i just saw it being freinds. Now if that isnt a heartbreaker, i dont know waht is. I felt so let down. I share that pain with every other poor guy that went thru that. BTW she is a senior and im a freshman in high school, that may be weird 2 some people, but she was wanting 2 go out with my best freind. Weird Huh?

-- posted by csmith2009

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» gothpunkboy - i love her does shelove me?

I love this girl so much but i dont know if she deos she ster's at me alot when im not doing anything what is she tring to tell me?

-- posted by gothpunkboy

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» aguirre422 - Does she like me?

hey,
i know this girl in one of my classes that i have a crush on, but i'm trying to figure out if she has a crush on me. in the hallways, if i see her, i'll say hi and she'll say hi also, but with a giant smile as if she's so excited to see me. or other times when she'll look at me ( thinking i don't see her) she'll stare awhile before looking at the floor then away. she never stares at me with a smile though. anytime she talks with her friend ( who the two of them sit right in front of ) and makes a joke, which i laugh at, she notices me laughing, then will turn all her attention to me. one day, i can remember having a fire drill at school. she came out later then me and when she did, her focus went straight to me insted of her friend. she only stared at me, or really gazed at me. the last thing was that i noticed that one day before the bell rang, her and her friend each looked over at me as if they were talking about me. the only thing i want to know is if does in fact have a crush on me and the signs are clear as day or i'm thinking about way to much. thamks

-- posted by aguirre422

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» csmith2009 - Re: i love her does shelove me?

Dude, i totally see what you mean, although the one i love says she likes me as a friend, yet i catch her looking at me alot. Whats that about?

-- posted by csmith2009

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» mike3142 - Hey, im back

Aight everyone, looks like the chat has died...well im back now, (this is mike by the way) im on my m8's one for now cos i lost me other one, errr...well im back to help ya'll
^-^

-- posted by mike3142

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» mike3142 - Does she like me?

In response to Does she like me? posted by aguirre422:

Well mostly i can say mate is that she must have a good bit of interest in you...im not 100% sure but she does if anyone actually acts like that
ya know what i mean?.. ;P

-- posted by mike3142

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» eros_3030 - should i be more agressive

i like this gurl and i know for a fact she likes me....but i dont know of i should ask her out...she talks to me and smiles at me and calls me here and there....she's a year older than me and graduates this year...but i cant help but think that after we hook up it wont be the same...or atleast like i would want it to be....anyone got sum type o advice??????????????
pls email me.....
EroOsoOuL

-- posted by eros_3030

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» mike3142 - should i be more agressive

In response to should i be more agressive posted by eros_3030:

m8, you should go for it, i have a person i like as well and for a matter of fact shes 20 years older than me but it doesnt matter, as long as we both know we love eachother thats all that matter's and will keep us together, so i say you should and hope for the best, remember relationships arent built on lies but true honesty.. even if it means gettin embarrassed to say it ;)

-- posted by mike3142

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» naty46 - Im a shy boy and i dont know if a shy girl likes me

In response to Im a shy boy and i dont know if a shy girl likes me posted by matt54

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