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» _Boanerges_ - Re: The only pain I can Control

In response to The only pain I can Control posted by LOST_AND_AFRAID:

on mi fave show degrassi a quote from a girl *its the only pain i can control...

But...Ellie did leave her cutting! With help from her friend, Paige and Shaun.....

Talk with those who are your friends.. Share with them, that which is bothering you... You will find that letting that out, will help.... And, if you have no real friends that want to listen to you, then continue to have conversation here!

The sun will shine again for you..... Trust that to be true, okie...

-- posted by _Boanerges_

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» AFRIEND16 - Re: The only pain I can Control

-- posted by AFRIEND16

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» AFRIEND16 - Re: The only pain I can Control

Dear friend,
You like the feeling of being suspended between life and death,in short friend you luv escapism,you r a quitter.So what u are going to do is buy a set of new blades an take an oath on them that if you r ever goin to cut urself,its with those blades and only after reading the paper on them.Lock them up in ur cupboard in ur room.Now take a plane paper and write all the damn abuses you'll call a quitter.Call urself a nerd without a spine.Tell urself(write) that you r actually betraying ur mother.If u 'ave an unhappy home,tell urself that ur cheating ur best friend.If there's a problem there 2,think of what ur gal will think of u.She won't call u a martyr. She'll only think"good riddance".What girls want most of all need is a strong minded man being there 4 them,shielding them.If u die lak a coward,you'll lose even the little respect she has 4 u.Maybe if u come out of all this,she'll lak ur determination and accept u.Call urself a cheat and a sinner.
By now you'll be too deppressed to try to kill urself.Write in bold letters at the bottom of the page,
THERE IS A WAY OUT.BY THINKING OF KILLING URSELF U R LETTING THE DEVIL CREEP IN.U DO NOT WANNA DIE AS A DEVIL'S CHILD AND GO TO HELL.U WANNA DIE AS GOD'S CHILD.THERE IS GOD WHO WILL PULL ME OUT OF THIS WITH ME DOING NOTHING.

IF U R AN ATHEIST,THINK 'PEOPLE WILL EXPECT ME TO DIE.LET ME DO ATLEAST ONE THING TO PROVE THEM WRONG.LEMME DO ATLEAST ONE THING BY WHICH I CAN PROVE MYSELF BETTER THAN THEM.I WILL GO OPPOSITE TO WHAT THEY THINK.THEY THINK I'LL TRY TO DIE,I WON'T.
Place this paper on those blades so that you can read them before u reach out for the blades.

three cheers 4 u.
SORRY THAT I USED ABUSIVE LANGUAGE AT THE BEGINNING.I'M UR WELLWISHER AND I HAVE UR BEST INTRESTS AT MY HEART.'TWAS ONLY 2 MAKE U UNDERSTAND.AGAIN,IF IT HURT UR EMOTIONS ,LEMME TELL U SORRY AGAIN,I DIDN'T MEAN THEM.

-- posted by AFRIEND16

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» wasteoftime - a lot of stress in my life

ok im 13 and i cut but i want to stop but i cant,i dont do it for attetion,theres just a lot of stress goin on in my life!! with my friends,boys,and my parents. we just moved out of state and i dont like it here! i have no friends and i dont know no one here. i just i dont know wut to do!!! my parents know but i told them i stopped but i didnt and i want to cuz i cant cover up the scars all over me and i dont want my parents finding out cuz my dad will freak on me!!

-- posted by wasteoftime

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» excutter2011 - Re: i want to stop cutting

In response to i want to stop cutting posted by ledzeppelinchik:

im only 13 and i used to cut for 2 years. u shoulrealyly tell your mom or dad because realyly do need help. after i got help for mcuttinin i felt ALOT better. to tell u the truth i got sent to the hospital because my cutting was so bad i wagittinin ready to kill myself! you shoulrealyly tell some one so you can get help!

-- posted by excutter2011

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» hawknut - Some self-help

Here's a pretty good self-help web site - some advice from people who've been cutters themselves. It gives other ways to cope without cutting.

I learned a lot from it myself. Like the reason cutters might feel relief and calm after cutting is because the brain sends chemicals (Endorphins) into the blood stream when the body gets hurt. Scientists say many cutters have chemical imbalances which cause them to want to hurt themselves in the first place. These Endorphins help balance those chemicals for about two hours. A doctor can treat chemical imbalances with medicines so you don't need to cut.

Anyway, check out the other ways to get relief here:

http://www.palace.net/~llama/psych/self....

If you have no one to talk to about your feelings, you can try writing them down in a journal. Think of the journal as your best friend and write what's on your mind - especially when you feel like cutting. When I was young, I used to write in a journal when I was upset, and it really helped.

-- posted by hawknut

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» cwabitch - your a psycho

You are one crazy . Why would anyone EVER CUT THEIR WRISTS??? and your damn straight I haven't, never considered it, and if i saw someone doing it I would get them immediate therapy. Why can't you just be normal and take a hit or get tipsy ? why you gotta cut yourself, one of these days you'll hit an artery and bleed to death and you can only blame that on yourself. It sounds to me that your trying to commit suicide and to that I say there is always something to live for. ALWAYS.

-- posted by cwabitch

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» starbat - Re: The only pain I can Control

In response to Re: The only pain I can Control posted by _Boanerges_:
even right now i am thinking about cutting again when i saw that
knife i thought of it in my wrists and blood flowing i need help!!!!!

-- posted by starbat

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» cutter_needs_ - Here is some advice.

In response to Here is some advice. posted by RCalmet:
thats not right! i cut myself and i do it for a damn reason

-- posted by cutter_needs_

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» blue_eyes145 - Here is some advice.

In response to Here is some advice. posted by RCalmet:

Okay, cutting isn't always a cry for help and it isn't always a symptom of a deeper problem. I was a cutter for a solid year, every day. I kept it on my left wrist because I could hide it with a watch. My mom only found out when she came into my room and I was half-concious on my bed with the blade in my hand and blood running down my arm. It isn't fun. You don't do it because you like it. You do it when you feel alone. It's soothing in a really, really sick way. I tried to quit about halfway through, but I relapsed a month later. It was only when a friend promised they would quit drugs if I quit cutting that I got the nerve to do it. My parents didn't know how to handle it. As a result, it caused friction between them because my mom didn't want to upset me further by getting upset herself, and my dad was incredibly angry at her for not calling a doctor right away. Frankly, doctors didn't help me, because it was just my family doctor playing phychiatrist-for-a-day. I could never forgive myself for the kind of burden I put on my family by doing that. It used to be that I couldn't hide it very well, so a few people knew. But now, anyone new I meet, I make sure they don't find out, because I'm not the person I used to be. I never had a mental problem or anything like that. I felt alone in my own family.

-- posted by blue_eyes145

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