Borderline Resistance To Help & "Truth"
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» Sophies_Choice - what the hell are you people talking about i get so angry with y
what the hell are you people talking about i get so angry with you people what the hell do you think you are trying to do to me AJ what is going on here.-- posted by Sophies_Choice
» glinda - another great article
Just a great big thanks to you AJ for answering my questions with such clarity and insight. (my goodness, it just dawned on me that you do more for me than my ex-borderline!) I also read the most recent article on 2/29/00, that frankly was scary for me and made me realize how exhaustive it must beto think that way. Thanks again.-- posted by glinda
» Tony1 - Sophies Choice translated
what the hell are you people talking about=”What the hell am I talking about?”
i get so angry with you people
=”I get so angry with myself”
what the hell do you think you are trying to do to me
=”What am I doing to myself”
AJ what is going on here
=Ask AJ a SPECIFIC question and I’m sure she can give you a helpful answer.
Sophies Choice, I hope you start dealing with the pain that you are afraid of.
It's not as bad as the pain that you are in.
-- posted by Tony1
» littleskin - A Point In It All
Just a quick note after reading the above....As I got chucked out and after a few years of a very unstable life and relashion, ending in crises after crises, by the time I got to 19-20 I was starting to get so tired and suicial because I started asking why me, I didn't realise it wasn't normal what was happening and how I was acting, behaving and feeling, over time I read and studied about depression which led onto my finding DSM manual and about BPD, It answered my prays and I realised the answer to my question that made me keep going.....why and the biggest I always thought "Somethings not right, with me, with my life, with crises, with people, with being homeless and no money, with a broken family whom rejected me, with being alone, with no friends, with not knowing me, with being looking in rather than out and feeling like god was punishing me, all I knew was something was wrong" The info and internet support changed my life and I could match and recognise why things were as they were, it turns out 4 and half yrs later, I have been diagnosed as having BPD and dependant PD, social anxiety and depression and the Dr I have helps me alot, I'm doing my best and developing as I can, and despite the fact of no family and few friends and desperately wanting someone to acknowledge all my hard effort and work, of which is very rare, I keep going....and going......I got myself a puppy a while ago, he's my family now.....but I must learn to be happy by praising myself.....my point is I think people either get caught in the Psy system, family, friends end up in bad situations and either choose to sit and then get it all again, try to work out why it's all happening or just start to ask that question with time....I just wish that I had been caught by the system when I was 14-15 when things were already bad and not at 19-20 when my illness was at it's peak and suicide was the only way they managed to catch me, however even then they choose to let me out of general after 3 days only for it to happen 3 times before sectioning and gradual support and meds etc...cheers for listening Daniel and Charlie.....PS If you ever witness some one asking what's wrong or with a look of pain...advise them to go look on the net with you for help and guide them to work out whatever it is, that is causing them so much pain and hurt...I would like to work with children oneday, maybe kids whom also have probs but need just some care, love and a cuddle....the things I can give, but I didn't get....but can from them....there good for that and kids don't judge....a few tip for you guys, that helped me
-- posted by littleskin
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