She's 20 years older than me
- uniquesitch
- snakebite_999
- admasgirl
- Outlandish
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» uniquesitch - Advice please!
Hi all! I have been going out with a woman who is 20 years older than I. We started out quite quickly, major chemistry, very attracted to each other and awesome s$x. We look great together and everyone thinks she is at least 10-15 years younger than she is, in fact its a family thing, her whole family is very young looking, her parents who are in their mid 80's look like they are barely pushing 60 and they are very active. Oh, she also has a son who is a week younger than me.... sounds like a match made in heaven doesnt it.Well, the reason I am writing to this site for some advice from others as well as some who are in this type of realtionship is that we are starting to feel quite serious about each other.
I am confused, if the age diff wasnt there I would probably have no problem marrying this woman. Help!
-- posted by uniquesitch
» snakebite_999 - Re: Advice please!
well my current gf is 20 yrs older and has 2 kids 10 and 13. im 21. things are going great between us and would never change anything.the only problem i have is my parents, not told them her age yet. we have a gr8 sex life and look so good together.
you know what, it doesnt matter what anyone says or thinks, you be hapy and enjoy every minute of your life together
-- posted by snakebite_999
» admasgirl - Re: Advice please!
In response to message posted by uniquesitch:I am also in a relationship where the age difference is 19 yrs...im 19 yrs older...from time to time i wonder what the hell is going on..but when im apart from him i feel like im dying...in my heart i know i love him...despite the age gap..most of my fears and worries come from what society has placed upon me..i try to remember that whenever i worry and that helps alot...i dont want anyone to dictate whats right or wrong for me...i take it day to day....i know im in love and as long as hell have me ill have him...
-- posted by admasgirl
» Outlandish - Re: Advice please!
In response to Re: Advice please! posted by snakebite_999:I (female)want to ask you about this type of situation because I am in love with a man who is 20 years younger than me and didn't say anything to him until he said something to me- he is comfortable with this situation in fact he says he prefers an older women- I find that hard to believe and can't get my head around it. Can you tell me as a younger man yourself in this situation why you are attracted to an older women? I think it would help me to hear from other people that are in this situation so that I don't feel so alone in this. Thank you for your time!
-- posted by Outlandish
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