2 miscarriages, trying again...
- paf1069
- ttcweb
- beccanat
- Davis21904
- jojo79jo
- hope4one
- DVoth
- mbw0903
- pregnantnscared
- down16
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» paf1069 - miscariage and future pregnancy
I just had my first miscarriage two weeks ago. I was 14 weeks pregnant. I was to the doctor the week before and had a papsmear done (also heard the heartbeat of our baby). Less than a week later, I was bleeding slighty so I went back to have a fetal heart rate and ultrasound. No heart beat was found. They encourage me to have a d/c done two days later. Since I'm 34 years old, how long should we wait before trying again? Would the pap test cause the miscarriage?-- posted by paf1069
» ttcweb - Re: miscariage and future pregnancy
In response to miscariage and future pregnancy posted by paf1069:I am very sorry to hear about your loss.
A pap test will not cause a miscarriage. As to how long you should wait before trying again, that is mostly up to you and your partner. Do give yourself and your partner time to heal, physically, emotionally, and mentally, before you start trying again.
-- posted by ttcweb
» beccanat - 2 miscarriages and scared
Hi I am 19, 20 this month. May 2004 I had a miscarriage at 14 weeks this was extremely shocking for both my partner and I. I had to have a D&C as the placenta had not come away. I was very low for a long time. It took almost year after active trying to conceive again. I had a 'miss' miscarriage, By the dates I was 13 weeks but at my first scan they said there was no heartbeat from 9wk2ds. I have convinced the hospital to do some tests before we try again, as they told us they only do tests after a 3rd. I really couldn't set my self up to do that again I would rather be sterile. I am very low at the moment and cant cope watching my partner with his two children for a previous relationship. Is there any light at the end of the tunnel, is it safe to try again? please help.-- posted by beccanat
» Davis21904 - Trying Again After 2 Miscarriages
I have a son, who is 20 months old today. My husband and I are trying to conceive another, but have had 2 miscarriages back to back. I had my first miscarriage in July (I was 10 weeks) and my second a week ago (I was 5 weeks). My Doctor says there is nothing wrong and we should keep trying. He said that is was a fluke and we shouldn't stop trying. What should I do?Thanks,
Brooke
-- posted by Davis21904
» jojo79jo - pregnancy after miscarriage
hi Everyone I am 26 yrs old I have a 3 1/2 yr old son. In May 9mother's day) I had my first miscarriage at 12 wks baby was only 9 wks though. Then in late Sept. I was only 4 wks had another missed miscarriage is what they called it. Well I am pregnant again and very happy but nervous as well b/c I got pregnant 5 wks ago with no period first. Did this happen to anyone else? Do you think I will be ok and will carry to term? I pray to go deveryday that he will help me carry this baby to full term. Any suggestions?-- posted by jojo79jo
» hope4one - Re: 2 miscarriages and scared
In response to 2 miscarriages and scared posted by beccanat:I can relate to your situation. My partner has two children from a previous relationship. Although I love the kids it is very hard at times to see the love and admiration that a child only gives to a parentand to know there is a possibility that I will never feel that. What are some things you do to keep this from making you leave your partner. I have a blood clotting disease anticardiolpn which causes me to miscarry. I've been pregnant 10 times with the same partner it hurts especially when I'm causing the problem. My partner is here for me every step of the way but sometimes my mind thinks crazy things like he may be happy we are not producing a child. I want a child so bad its making me lose my mind. If you can give me any insight it would bee greatly appreciated.
-- posted by hope4one
» DVoth - Pain
I have had my period for 10 monthes now since my son was born but now i am gettiing a pain in my pelvise and someone got me worried that i could of miscarried. Before my period i was bleeding and now im not but im in alot of pain and i didnt think i was pregnant and as much as i love kids not readdy to have a seccond but i hope i havent miscarried either can u guys help me???-- posted by DVoth
» mbw0903 - 2 miscarriages and scared
In response to 2 miscarriages and scared posted by beccanat:So Sorry for your losses. I know what it is like...My husband and I have lost 2 ourselves. My first one was @ 10 weeks on thanksgiving day in 03 and my second one was @ 14 weeks Nov 11 of 05. I would ask your doctor again to do the Recurring Miscarriage Panel. I only say that b/c after our first one we tried again and nothing...to come to find out after changing doctors that I had an under active thryoid. After our second one our doctor sent us for the RMP and I have the blood clotting in pregnant women. I hope all works out for you...nothing is ever safe.....but you just have to keep faith and think positive. Believe me its hard....extremely since my little sister is Due in Oct and she isn't married and not even with the guy anymore.....and can't afford it. So why her and not me....Just keep your chin up!
-- posted by mbw0903
» pregnantnscared - is there something wrong with me
my partner and i have had 2 miscarriages first was 9 weeks second 11 weeks.Everything was normal the second time and the baby just died and it just killed me. now i am pregnant again will i have another miscarriage could there be something wrong with my partner? i dont even know if i should get excited my mom isnt even supporting me just says its going to die again and she cant keep going through this what should i do?!-- posted by pregnantnscared
» down16 - is there something wrong with me
In response to is there something wrong with me posted by pregnantnscared:Hi I have just had my second miscarriage in 8 months. My first was a blighted ovum which was not discovered until 13 weeks when I had my first scan. The second at 11 weeks. This time has been much harder as we had a scan at 8 weeks and could see everything as it should be with the heartbeat going ninety to the dozen. I know exactly how you feel. Even though only my second my mum kept telling me not to get excited. I think you should just ignore your mother and concentrate on yourself. try to relax and not strss about what others are thinking. It is not your mother who is having to go through this, it is you. It is you who has felt both the physical and the emotional pain and not your mum and she should be there for you. But, if she is not, just be there for yourself and try to think positive. Good luck!!!!
-- posted by down16
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