Teen girls dating older boys

Top 43. Mar 30, 2005 9:46 AM

» lovesuxs21 - Re: Re: Re: im a 14 year old in love with a17 year old

Hey I am ganna be 15 in june and i am going out with a 19 year old every one thinks it is wrong I get called a slut because he is older then me it makes me fell mad but i get over it i am scared to tell my mom should i tell age is just a number like you said who cares how old you are

-- posted by lovesuxs21

Top 44. Mar 30, 2005 2:42 PM

» Icypebbles2000 - Re: Re: Re: older guys

I agree with you dobiechic 87 because I am also in a situation myself I am 18 dating a man that is 28h has two kids and wants to be with me my mom doesn't allow me to date so I continue to date him secretly what should I do if my family found out they would kill me Do you have any advice feel free to email me at Icypebbles2000@yahoo.com

-- posted by Icypebbles2000

Top 45. Aug 6, 2005 12:15 PM

» feelingmeanmore - im 14 and im going out with a 19 year old and i love him

he is so sweet to me he would do anything in the world for me but i was afaird to tell my mom because of the age differeance and i heard how most ofthe older people who knew about it said why would a 19 year old go out with a 14 year old they all said he was most likely useing me for sex which i knew he wasnt cause im the one who asked first.but then my mom found out and she was pissed she said im gunna throw him in jail and this and that so i did the unexpected i mad all the attention off of him and on to me so that would be the last of my moms worries so i cut my wrist not wanting to die but to make her forget about him which worked but i got sent to a mental hospital which i dont regret because there i got my mom to listen to me and understand how i felt about him and that he wasnt useing me till this day he calls my mom to see how i am every day since my mom hasnt made her mind up whether i can see him now or not he told me he will wait for me and call my mom everyday till he sees me to make sure im ok but i have a feeling she is going to let me see him soon cause she says that he deserves a chance since he is showing that he really does love me and isnt useing me that is my story so i dont think age difference is a big deal as long as they arent useing you or pressureing u to do stuff u dont want to and make sure u love them cause it still is a law and whom every the older person is can go to jail

-- posted by feelingmeanmore

Top 46. Aug 26, 2005 8:59 AM

» vocreson84 - Re: Re: Guys

In response to Re: Guys posted by KEItothefullest:

ok, you're probably going to think that i sound like a parent or something, but you are a bit too young to be sneaking around with a guy 6 years older than you. i'm 17 and i just started dating a guy that's 21, so you can call me a hypocrite if you wish, but at 14 you dont know. i probably dont know either, but i'm not calling my relationship love, and since i've been dating for a while i know how to hold my ground with guys. no offense, but at your age you dont how to deal with that yet (no matter how experienced you think you may be).

-- posted by vocreson84

Top 47. Jan 10, 2006 9:46 PM

» JoesBabe159 - Re: Re: Re: im a 14 year old in love with a17 year old

In response to Re: Re: im a 14 year old in love with a17 year old posted by ChadsGirl:

Hey Chadsgirl,
I need advice, my boo is 19, im 15 and he is at college in Miami, I live in Wisconsin. We met at school when I was a freshman, and he is so sweet and my perfect match. We've kept in contact but when he came to visit, he was embarassed that he was talkin to a young girl. We are in love, but I don't know whether we should put it off and wait or I should still talk to someone who cares about what others think. IDK! I need help! This message is late, but I wonder if you still have advice... I hope he doesn't make fun of me when he sees this, but I like so many things about him, he doesn't even know.

-- posted by JoesBabe159

Top 48. Apr 2, 2006 6:44 AM

» dracony - Re: Guys

In response to Re: Guys posted by KEItothefullest:

So, im 17, and i fell in love with a girl that is 14 (unleast she tells me so, i guess she was 13 only 2 months ago or so)she also lives in another country.
Its not that there is any problem with that, but here is what i think.

Ok, girls like older boys, and sometimes vice versa because its there genetical goal(girls seek someone strong, to feel protected, and boys seek younger to care for them), just like in stoneage, the idea remains the same over the centuries.
Well i write her lots of sweet stuff, and she loves me, but what im worried is that she wont like me when she'll see me. Its not that im ugly or something. The idea is im a university student, and what people like to call a computer nurd smile .
So i dont belong strong alpha-male group.
I guess she'll leave me for some bucket of meat eventually.

You see, if a girl falls for an older boy, she automaticly launches that genetical assumption, that he should be some strong furious hero, not a computer wiz.

-- posted by dracony

Top 49. May 21, 2006 6:14 PM

» looper46 - im 14 and im going out with a 19 year old and i love him

In response to im 14 and im going out with a 19 year old and i love him posted by feelingmeanmore:

You are in a tough spot.My daughter is 16 years old seeing a 20 year at first I didn't like it but he trets her the best in the world I wish I had a boyfried like that.All I can say is if he is really good to you and not using you for sex thats a good thing.My daughter is doing better in school she acts so grown up and she is the boss in he relationship he will do anything for her because he truly loves her. From a mothers poit of view it does happen but everyone around you is just worried about you because you are young I don';t know what to say to you .But your family is the most inportant thing relationships can come and go but family is always there.So if you do see him make sure you tell your parents that you know they don't like it but please be there for me and I love you

-- posted by looper46

Top 50. Jun 2, 2006 1:48 PM

» bj1988 - i have a question

ok i am dating a girl that jus turned 14 april her mom works for D.F.S. i am 18 in august her mom knows bout me and loves me and always wants me to come over she thinks as me as her step son at first we tried to hide it from her mom she got mad and found out now her mom likes us she dont want us having sex i understand not saying we havn't though but you know what happens is what happens her mom know we kiss i dont care if we do anything or not i jus love bein round her and spendin time together and jus for the record bout the sex thing it was her idea not mine but i dont mind at all can i get your alls opion on this subject plz and for those 14-15 year old girls out there do you think she is in it for a actuall relationship b/c i am and wat do you all think bout this subject and for anybody else wit my problem with a younger girl jus tell there mom she may not like it at first but if she dont mind it may work out better and her mom may be o wit it

-- posted by bj1988

Top 51. Jun 6, 2006 7:15 AM

» ThEmIsNear - As long as you care about eachother..

Hi everyone. I feel relieved that I'm not the only one that has had problems with this. I'm seeing a guy that's amazing. He's decent, he's mature, but also has a sense of fun and humour. It's strange, because I've never been able to 'click' with anyoen like this. My name's Emma, I'm 15, and I'm seeing a guy who's 21. (6 year age gap). I would like to tell you my story. After a few months of sneaking out to meet him, we thought it'd be best to tell my parents about this. My mum's unstable at most times - she can't control herself, she easily has breakdowns. My dad didn't seem to mind what I did, as lond as I didn't get into any trouble. Sound ok? Believe me, after I told my dad this, it wasn't. I thought he'd understand, but he obviously didn't see what I saw in him. He wasn't interested in meeting him at all, which is strange because it'd be the first thing i'd like to do and waht any parent would like to do. When my mum heard, she started to tell me how I'd betrayed them. After a few hours, I found no other option but to harm myself. I picked up a pair of scissors, and played my arm klike a fuckin' violin. But, after all of this suffering, I didn't let go of my boyfriend. Because, nothing can stop us. He swears that he's not going to let go. Of course he doesn't like to see me get hurt. But, he's willing to wait 10 more months (which is when I turn 16!) UNTIL WE SEE EACHOTHER IN PUBLIC.

The point I'm trying to make is that don't let go if you think he's worth it. I warn you - if you tell your parents the first thing they'll think is 'PAEDOPHILE'. But, don't let them get that into your head. Because you know this guy alot more than your parents. Please, don't let your parents get in the way. I'm still planning to see this 21 year old guy in secret until I turn 16 = which is when my parents can't do anything about it. So, please, don't give up. If anyone is willing to share their problems, then please feel free - i know exactly what your going through. I warn you, it'll be hard, but if you love eachother, it'll DEFINITELY be worth it.

I would do anything for the man that I dearly love. Although we can't regularly meet up or speak to eachother, we both know that it'll be worth it. dont be disheartened because of age. it really doesn#t matter at all.

-- posted by ThEmIsNear