i'm pregnant ..
- lollipop252004
- blueshield
- MzRiza
- Manderella
- chapman05
- pompey4eva
- Onedge2005
- Onedge2005
- Tammy06
- Tammy06
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» lollipop252004 - Re: Re: Re: i'm pregnant and 13....
In response to Re: Re: i'm pregnant and 13.... posted by etphonehome74: WOW 13 HUH . OK I THINK YOU'LL NEED TO HAVE SOMEONE WITH YOU WHEN TELL YOUR MOTHER SOMEONE THAT YOU CAN TRUST AND NOT SOMEONE FROM YOUR SCHOOL LIKE THE OTHER PERSON SAID. THAT'S JUST CRAZY. ANYWAYS AFTER YOU TALK TO YOUR MOM AND YOU KNOW HOW SHE FEELING ABOUT THIS BIG BIG ISSUES . YOU 'LL HAVE THINK IS THIS THE BEST THING FOR YOU HAVING A BABY AT 13 WHEN YOUR ONLY A CHILD YOURSELF. I FEEL A MOTHER WHO'S CARRYING A CHILD HAS THE RIGHT TO DECIDE TO KEEP A BABY OR NOT. BUT IF IT WAS ME AND I WAS THAT YOUNG. THERE I WOULD ABORT THE CHILD . ONE CAUSE 13 IS VERY YOUNG AND THE FACT YOU DON'T KNOW IF THE CHILD WILL BE PASS AROUND FROM ONE FROSTER HOME TO ANOTHER. BUT IF YOU DECIDE TO KEEP IT GOOD FOR YOU. I HOPE THAT YOU ENJOY BEING A MOTHER AT A YOUNG AGE. IT'S HARD WORK AND IF YOU FEEL YOU CAN DO IT . IAM BEHIND YOU A 100%
GOOD LUCK
-- posted by lollipop252004
» blueshield - Re: i'm pregnant and 13....
Must be a scary feeling for you.
I don't have any advice to give except to do what you feel is the right thing and don't look back. Regret can poison your heart. If you need anything or just to talk you can drop me an email at blueshield21@yahoo.comI wish you the best of luck. *hugs*
-- posted by blueshield
» MzRiza - Response
Sweetie don't let anyone tell you what to do, You do what is right for you. Until they have lived in your shoes nobody knows how you feel. Abortion, adoption, or keeping the baby. Your heart will tell you what to do. Maybe your mom will be there for you. If she is a good mother she will back you no matter what. If you need any help email me. carissa_lynn@hotmail.com-- posted by MzRiza
» Manderella - Re: i'm pregnant and 13....
In response to i'm pregnant and 13.... posted by Kylie123:Honey, this is just my opinion, and I can't really tell you what to do either, but if it were me....I'd have an abortion. You're way too young to have a baby. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but you'll realize that when you're older. I had a baby at 20, and I was too young. I was not even prepared for anything mentally, no matter how much I thought I was. I also got pregnant again at 23, and had an abortion. No way was I about to have another one! I'll tell you and all of these other religeous, pro-life people out there tooo, that even though I stay on birth control now, if I were to get pregnant again, I'd still have another abortion! Bringing a baby into this world when you can't take care of it, is worse than an abortions, if you ask me. I have friends that had babies as teenagers, and every one of them regret it! They lost out on their childhood because of it, and therefore always end up leaving the baby with someone else just so they can get away for a while. This is just my opinion, but please, honey, don't have it....you'll ruin your entire life!
-- posted by Manderella
» chapman05 - Re: i'm pregnant and 13....
In response to i'm pregnant and 13.... posted by Kylie123:{{{{{Kylie123}}}}}}}
Take a deep breath Kylie...You sound very scared and I don't blame you. We don't have too many details about your situation...have you had an official test to tell you that you are pregnant?
Is the father of the baby around? Can the two of you make an appointment to see your pastor or talk to a trusted relative if you feel you can't approach your mother yet.
Your mother loves you I'm sure and although she would be surprised at first, she would get used to the idea.
There are options for you and the hardest thing will be to tell someone. If you are thinking adoption there are wonderful couples whose arms are aching for a baby that they can't have on their own. They would love your baby and raise the baby in a two parent home.
Please take care of yourself and your baby and keep us posted as you can see by the responses we care.
chapman05
-- posted by chapman05
» pompey4eva - Re: Re: i'm pregnant and 13....
In response to Re: i'm pregnant and 13.... posted by chapman05:dont have an abortion..a baby is the best thing that can be made by people and i know that you may now think that if you havnt told your mum but it will be worth it in the end.
-- posted by pompey4eva
» Onedge2005 - Re: i'm pregnant and 13....
My boyfriend left me and told everyboby I was pregnant and then he told my mom what should I do?-- posted by Onedge2005
» Onedge2005 - Re: Re: i'm pregnant and 13....
Kylie123 is wrong I will have an abortion.-- posted by Onedge2005
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