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Mar 14, 2007
Improving Parenting Skills
Three Life Strategies for Being a Better Parent
1. Career Strategies you can apply to parenting:
- Establish annual and quarterly goals
- Review your performance
- Identify areas you want to improve
- Seek out opportunities for professional development (mentoring, workshops, reading materials, etc.)
- Work to be a team player
2. Travel Strategies you can apply to parenting:
- Prepare your car for the road by getting a tune-up, brake check, oil change, etc. (in the case of parenting you can prepare by practicing regular self-care)
- Plan your route by consulting a map.
- Ask for directions when you are lost.
- Pull off the road and reconsider your route when you get off track
3. Project Strategies you can apply to parenting
- Begin with the end in mind (in the words of Stephen Covey, 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families). Think about where you want to go and plan how you will get there accordingly.
- Divide big tasks into manageable pieces to avoid overwhelm
- Rest when you are tired
- Be willing to correct your course (sometimes we over/underestimate what it will take to complete a project - redraw your new blue print with the new information in mind)
- Maintain a sense of humor - if you've ever undertaken a big home remodeling or building project you know what I'm talking about!
Where can you look for hints and strategies that help you improve your parenting?
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