Household Chores
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Posted by Barbara Gibson Nov 29, 2006 |
Five Tips for Getting Kids to do their Chores
Sometimes getting kids to do chores might involve games, encouragement or rewards. See what works for you.
- Use a chore jar - list everything that needs to be done around the house for the week and let each child choose and complete a chore.
- Set a timer - this strategy has worked well for me, especially when the task seems too overwhelming to even start. Set the timer and ask your child to do as much as s/he can until the timer goes off. Sometimes making chores time limited makes them seem more manageable.
- Use "when" and "then" - For example, "when the dishes have been washed and put away, then you can watch television or use the computer."
- Provide a window of opportunity - This strategy is especially helpful with older children. Instead of saying "I want you to wash the car," try "please wash the car by Sunday at 6."
- Show appreciation - Everyone likes to feel that their efforts are recognized. Give your child a pat on the back by naming exactly what pleases you about the completed chore. Don't forget please and thank you.
Household chores are a fact of life. Make your life easier by using a little more creativity and a lot less nagging...you may just be surprised.