Traumatic Experience

No doubt, there will be some among you who have had the unfortunate experience of being diagnosed with cancer. Much of the reaction to such a diagnosis will depend on your temperament.

There are those who are naturally very calm and have a tendency to take life in stride. Some of these persons may seem fairly together after a cancer diagnosis. However, even normally calm persons may respond very negatively to this situation. Of course, for those who are very expressive by nature, this may be a very difficult situation in which to control ones feelings.

Irrespective of which group you fall into, the diagnosis usually hits hard. Especially for those with a less favourable prognosis, thoughts of life and death will inevitably run through your mind. Many may also be aware of the types of diagnostic procedures that may be required as well as the various forms of treatment that may be involved. This will further heighten the negative thoughts that are likely to be present.

In situations like these it is very important to gather as much support around you as is possible. This may include a spouse, other family members, members of your church, co-workers and friends. Sharing your feelings and fears will often be helpful. It may also allow others to understand your needs and provide assistance.

Some may also need professional advice. This should never be a reason for embarrassment. A cancer diagnosis is a serious event and should not be underestimated. Many persons around you will never have had this experience and may not be able to fully understand. It is therefore quite reasonable to seek out those who have been specifically trained to do so.

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