New School Year - New Challenges and Stressors. Don't Let Peer Pressures Get to You!

Posted by Jeannie Delahunt Sep 8, 2009

Though the years change, peer pressures do not, though the methods may be different. The growing years are filled with awkward times, odd emotions and surging hormones.

My parents used to say, "You are in school to learn. That is your number one priority." Make it yours. Do the best you can. If you need help in your subjects, get it. See your teachers after class, or ask for an appointment to see them. If you are shy, ask for your parents' assistance. Don't let your studies get ahead or away from you. Your future is now!

Job markets are tough. And to get into a position, there is not so much flexibility anymore has been my experience. Employers don't want to take the time to train. If college, or some sort of after high school education is what you are seeking, you've got to do well in your studies and your college boards. That means hitting the books.

Yes, school also means socializing and having fun. Leave time for that too, but in the end there are choices. Make those choices healthy ones.

Please, do not experiment with drugs and alcohol. So many young lives I have witnessed get severely side-tracked from their goals when they take this route. Some never get back on track. Drugs and alcohol are not healthy choices. They won't help you to study or help you to learn solid social skills.

And, if your parents are using, don't let their sickness get to you. Find support in your community, in your school. You can do it. Remember, they are drug or alcohol affected. They see the world and you through the eyes of the chemical(s) or the alcohol they are using. They are not in reality.

And, no matter what size or shape you are, love yourself. Being successful is far more than outward beauty. Be someone who people can trust and respect. Don't listen or cave into the bullies. When someone is at the bully level, trust me, they have internal problems that they are projecting onto others. Don't cave into negative messages, whether they are coming from the outside or from within yourself.

I firmly believe we are all gifted. Find your gifts! Make them strong. Identify your weaknesses and work to make those strong as well. Don't take on too much at a time. Find friends who are positive not negative, friends who have solid morals and beliefs. Dare to dream! Dare to pursue your dreams!

Think about getting involved in your community. Volunteer. Help a neighbor. You might be able to ask them for a reference further down the road.

Good luck! I wish the best for you! Have a great school year!