Book Reviews - You Are Not Alone Volumes I and II

Posted by Jeannie Delahunt Oct 5, 2009

Because there is a word limit to the articles, I was not, sadly, able to mention numerous other samplings for the work portrayed within Andrea's two books, nor was there room enough to detail the wonderful CD that accompanies Volume II (more on that in future articles).

Thus, to make up for the loss, I did want to emphasize that there are numerous examples of both eating disorder misery and recovery captured within Andrea's two volumes. I think anyone, even those who are not suffering from eating disorders could pick up the books and find some theme he/she could identify with.

The reading is not hard, but due to the intense level of emotional impact, a good deal of reflection, at least for me was necessary. This was especially true with the poetry and artwork, at least for me. What pictures say words can be completely useless for.

I found some of the pictures disturbing. Disturbing in that (at least for the US culture and society), punishing torment is prevelant, because of the emphasis upon the perfection of the human body in order to obtain and maintain success - though that is a lie, lies can be believed and perpetrated until they become a reality. Once a reality, who can separate the lie from the truth?

Will people lose or not be hired for jobs because they are not physically perfect? Of course that is the most extreme end, but, I personally think the US, at least, is heading that way. TV and the movies and music celebrities emphasize beauty and sexuality for fulfillment and success. Perhaps, however, this is fuel for its own article. Back to Andrea's books.

I find it comforting to know that despite the tyranny of an eating disorder, there is hope, and recovery is most definitely available to the sufferers who wish to pursue it. Recovery from eating disorders, like recovery from substance and alcohol abuse does not come easily. There is work involved, and sometimes scary work as issues, sometimes painful issues are addressed and processed.

As a former substance abuse counselor who loved to collect books about any issue relative to substance abuse, if I were still doing counseling, both of Andrea's books would be in my library. I would use them not only to educate myself, but as therapeutic tools for my clients. These are excellent resources.

Before I sign off, I also wanted to applaud Moritz, Andrea's kitty. This wonderful creature helped Andrea sustain her strength when strength waned. Blessed be the creatures!

Blessings to all! Thank you for reading!