Top 10 Articles About Introverts
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Posted by Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen Mar 4, 2008 |
Generally, introverts are much more comfortable relating to others one-on-one instead of in large groups.
This can be a disadvantage at work, school, or even home because extroverts seem like they're getting all the attention! Though introverts don't necessarily want attention, they do want to successfully network in business and make friends at school.
If you're an introvert who feels awkward in groups, try these 3 Ways to Socialize Successfully.
- Be yourself. Since many people confuse "snobbish" or "stuck up" with introverted personality traits, it's good to accept and be yourself. Make it known that you're not at your best in large groups, and that you'd rather get to know your peers in smaller grops. Invite one or 2 colleagues out for lunch or dinner, or have someone over for dinner.
- Work the room your way. If you're at a party or convention and feel totally lost, try approaching an extroverted person. She's the one who seems totally comfortable and happy - and who seems happy to talk to any person, plant, or animal. Or make an agreement with another introvert to be buddies for the night, and approach new colleagues together.
- Ask "Anything new happening with your kid?" The last time I asked this, I was rewarded with a hilarious story about the 9 month old baby. Ask about pets, families, other work endeavors, vacations, or hobbies.
The Top 10 Articles About Introverts:
- Am I an Introvert?
- The Introvert's Personality Traits
- Introverts at Work
- Dating for Introverts
- Introverts & Extroverts in Love
- The Big 5 Personality Traits
- Introverts Aren't Highly Sensitive
- How Introverts Communicate
- Valentine's Day for Introverts
- Dealing With Introvert Guilt
Introverts are thoughtful, creative, and great listeners. They may not be as appreciated as extroverts are, but they balance the world in valuable ways.