Happy Father's Day

Posted by Brenda Lane Jun 17, 2007

Fatherhood is a truly amazing time in the life of a man. It can serve as a life-altering event that changes a man deeply from thinking primarily of his own needs to realizing that not only does he have new responsibilities, but the needs of his baby often take precedent over his own.

Some fathers adjust easily to the new dynamics in the family. The sleepless nights, the cries of the baby, the mood swings of his wife, to name a few. Others have a harder time making the transition to being a new father. I have heard from fathers that one of the biggest problems they have encountered is the lack of guidance and support immediately after the baby is born. Some have expressed that none of the caregivers involved them in baby care or encouraged them in any way to take a role in child-rearing. This is very disturbing to say the least.

In my latest article, I have included several ideas to help new dads have a smoother transition to their role as fathers in the family. The earlier that fathers establish their own unique connection to their children, as well as develop an understanding of what their wives are experiencing, the stronger the entire family unit will be.

What were some of your struggles as new fathers? Share them with us!

Warmly,

Brenda