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Substance Abuse/Recovery

Bless This Mess
If a miracle happened to you, would you even know it?
Good Time for a Miracle!
If a miracle happened to you, would you even know it?
Taking Care of "Thee"
If I help you and encourage you to take care of yourself, we'll both be happier.
One Minute for Yourself
Do you do for everyone but yourself? How does that make you feel?
A poem about the pitfalls of recovery!!
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. Here's an ode to that insanity and recovery.
One Day at A Time
If you knew you were going to die tomorrow, how would you spend today? Living one day at a time, we always spend that day as well as we can.
Living With Physical and Verbal Abuse in Recovery
You've experienced terrible physical and verbal abuse, but when you tell your story at meetings or to your sponsor, all you seem to get in response is, "Keep the focus on yourself." That makes you feel so misunderstood and alone, doesn't it?
Living a Full Life
Living a full life means the happiness but also the aches and pains of life.
Is Skeleton Woman Interfering With Your Marriage?
You thought your spouse's recovery would be the best thing since sliced bread? Right. He's not even around to break bread with these days!
Wondering What To Do About Another Person’s Addiction?
Recovering yourself is one thing. Living with someone who isn't in recovery is another thing. Can you hack it?
Four Important Concepts for Recovery
The concepts behind the steps of recovery sometimes make them easier to understand and apply to our everyday lives.
Women Need Friendship for Recovery
Women trying to balance their recovery with their commitments to other people have difficulties with traditional messages of recovery, like attending 90 meetings in 90 days.
What's Your Boiling Point?
People in recovery often find that their number one character defect is anger and an inappropriate expression of that anger. This anger can lead to violent altercations with other people, even people we love.
Hiding Behind The Family Coat of Arms
So you drank or used to be happy? Did it work? Who do you have to blame for your unhappiness? Do you hide behind the family coat of arms?
Cigarette Smoking: What! Another Thing I Have to Give Up?
So you're enjoying that cigarette, eh? You wouldn't be so ready to light up if your skin turned to green blotches, would you?
Be Committed to Recovery
Make a commitment to recovery. It's a simple process.
Are you ready for recovery?
Recovery isn't easy. Don't expect it to be. But you can have a strong back to carry the load...the strength comes from recovery and your higher power.
Good luck, bad luck. Who knows?
Are you a worrier? Lack faith in the positive outcomes waiting for you in the future? Check out this story often used by Rev. Anthony Demello to make a point about turning our will and our lives over to the care of God.
Do I want what life wants?
God’s way is for the ultimate good. Yet how do we know what the ultimate good is?
Do I want what life wants?
God’s way is for the ultimate good. Yet how do we know what the ultimate good is?
Do I want what life wants?
God’s way is for the ultimate good. Yet how do we know what the ultimate good is?
What is your nightmare?
Attachments to things, people, places and ideas can become so obsessive that we lose focus on other things. Then they're no longer relationships, work, food, ideas, and normal success...they are something much worse!
There is No Quick Fix in Recovery
So you want to get this recovery business over with? Get things fixed and move on? Hold on...it's not quite that easy! Simple, but not easy.
Spirituality is an Altered State of Consciousness
Wondering about the spiritual part of recovery and how important it is? It is the foundation of recovery. So how you do you get on a spiritual path?
What Does Co-dependency Mean?
Does your behavior consistently indicate co-dependency? Find out what co-dependency looks and sounds like. Try it on for size for yourself!
What is Your Spiritual Condition?
Are you in good spiritual shape, or has your addiction to alcohol/drugs or to the alcoholic damaged your spiritual condition?
The Concepts Behind the Twelve Steps
What doe the Twelve Steps of recovery programs like A.A. and Al Anon mean? Here's one way of breaking the steps down into some concepts to help us understand how the steps can help us in our daily lives.
Women in Recovery: The Spiritual Part of the Program
Is putting down the drink enough for women who find themselves drinking too much?