Relationships

This article is dedicated to the memory of my grandmother who passed on March 7th 2001.

Mar 21, 2001 - Shelia Collier

My life has finally settled down so that I can again dedicate time to doing articles for Suite 101. I apologize for my abrupt departure and failure to let everyone who reads know. Since my last article, I have experienced a dramatic life change. I moved from Nashville, Tennessee to Bellevue, Washington.

Feb 2, 2001 - Shelia Collier

I have such wonderful enlighting conversations with my friend Kris that I wish I could just hand this information out to the other people who I know could use it. But since I can't, I will try to summarize somethings that I think many people need to know. These are things we are learning along the way and I feel sure that more that just the two of us are having these experiences. Or at least I hope so!

Jun 24, 2000 - Shelia Collier

I don't know about you, but when Spring rolls around I get restless. I guess its Spring Fever. Maybe its the renewal of nature that inspires Spring Fever but whatever it is, it inspires me to change things like no other time of the year. It seems a little easier to clean house and fix problems during these inspirational times. Its also a good time to look at your life and make positive changes.

Apr 28, 2000 - Shelia Collier

Always be honest with yourself. If at any point in the development of the relationship you recognize characteristics that you do not like, address them. Don't think that things will be different once the relationship evolves. If both partners are being honest, chances are what you see is what you will be living with. Know yourself then know your partner. Never stay in a relationship that prevents you from growing as human being. Chose a partner that is a quality friend as well as a quality lover.

Mar 1, 2000 - Shelia Collier

Finding a good partner requires being honest with yourself and with your potential significant other. Setting realistic expectations and making sure that the people who you chose to date are capable and willing to live up to those expectations will help prevent disappointment. Know what you want then look for someone who meets your criteria.

Feb 3, 2000 - Shelia Collier

Society is about to embark on a new millennium. We as women have an opportunities that in past generations would have been impossible. In the year 2000, we need to resolve to analize situations, look for solutions, and feel good about who we are.

Jan 13, 2000 - Shelia Collier

The holidays are a stressful time. Even if you are alone, it does not have to be a horrible experience. Pamper yourself if you are alone during the holidays. It is a fantastic time to devote a lot of energy to appreciating the one person you are closest too--you. There is much to be said to quiet alone time. You can shower or bathe when you want, dress or undress when you want, and all without fear of interruption.

Dec 28, 1999 - Shelia Collier

Self improvement means self evaluation. If you do not evaluate your past experiences, you will end up making the same mistakes and getting in to the same rotten situations over and over again. Realizing what you do not want is just as important as knowing what you want.

Dec 14, 1999 - Shelia Collier

I would like for the reading of this article to be the first day of the rest of your life. Realize that you are wonderful and valuable person who deserves to be treated with respect. This is the first step to happier and more fulfilling lives.

Nov 30, 1999 - Shelia Collier

There is a song that says "Learning to Love Yourself, Is the Greatest Love of All." We sing it but do we understand it? Loving yourself is the first step to being capable of having a healthy loving relationship.

Sep 3, 1999 - Shelia Collier