When you look in the mirror, whom do you see? Are you very proper, dressed in a reserved manner, and live by the principal of that is how it has always been done? Then this wedding idea may not be for you. But if you or your betrothed are fun loving, adventurous, and experimental, the theme wedding may make lots of sense for you.
Pick something that you like, that people know you for, or that when they get the invitations, they will smile and say, "of course." If the world of romance and dream worlds appeal to you and your soon-to-be spouse, why not pick a theme like Camelot, the Renaissance, the Fairy Woods, Under the Sea Palace. You can start with an idea like one of these and then embellish it. You may use elements of the idea, without going all the way with the theme, but follow it through with all plans first and see how far it could take you.
Decorating for your theme is easy. Use those same elements you would for a party. You will want to be sure your results are more professional looking for the most important day of your life. Party planners, florists, or others who just have a knack with such things should be sought out. Try to do whatever you can with the use of friends if the saving is your prime goal. Money will not be saved by using the professionals, but time, wear and tear, stress, and uniqueness will all be affected by these decisions.
Some of the traditional elements used to decorate may still be used but in an unconventional way. Balloons, garland, streamers, and flowers can be draped, arranged, and hung, to represent a castle, a wooded area, a Maypole, a bridge, a wishing well, or an underwater setting or almost anything else you like. The tables will carry the theme. If the wedding takes place outdoors, once the central area is selected, the main shape, design, or focal point can be incorporated into the natural scenery. Indoors, candles could be added and outdoors torches, lanterns, any type of pretty lighting.
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