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Opening the Garden to the Joy of Autumn Leaves and Winter flowers


© Gay Klok

OPEN GARDENS - WHY DO WE DO IT? Part One

When someone disparages your lilies, the gardener feels pain and sadness. When they tear the style of your gardening apart, they may as well stamp all over your heart with their muddy garden boots. If they only look at your Christmas roses that are seeding and making new little plants and appearing rather drab with their pregnancies and remark on their unwieldiness, the garden owner would dearly love to say to the garden visitor, "But you should have seen them in the cold of winter. They looked so brave and beautiful." But you know you must refrain from constantly saying, "You should have been here last week" or "You should see the garden next week, next month, next year!" Far better to point out "How beautiful the delphiniums are this year, they did enjoy the cold winter."

Why do we open our gardens, our hearts, to the public? It is not because we are closet masochists; indeed, it is the opposite. We are proud of our gardens, they are as we like them and we love them dearly and thoroughly enjoy sharing them and the love with other people. It is also a satisfying experience to share the successes and failures with other gardeners. We relish praise and do not mind the silent smugness of the gardener whose herbaceous border excels our own, for we have had that experience too.

There are many gardens that open their gates under the auspices of the Australian Open Garden Scheme. These are big and small gardens, exotic and native, grand and simple. As for garden owners, these are grand and simple people, exotic and native and I suspect, big and small. But underneath the grand, simple, exotic, native exteriors, we are all the same. Dirty clothes and ingrained grime in our finger nails, aching backs and happy hearts, empty purses [you must always buy just one more plant for that forgotten corner], instant amnesia on the name of any plant in your garden and a keen desire to share it all with the world, this is the contented lot of the garden owner.

       

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46.   Jun 9, 1998 2:02 PM
Micky -- I think you were right!!! What an interesting plant palette you must have -- meconopsis and now this .... a tree formed lobelia.... I am shaking my head having planted the little blue flow ...

-- posted by Cottage_Garden


45.   Jun 9, 1998 3:54 AM
Hello Howard, I have been up 36 hours, no exaggeration! but I would like to answer your question. The photograph of the seeds of the euonymus is of a seedling from an old E. oxyphyllus which already ...

-- posted by Gay_Klok


44.   Jun 7, 1998 2:55 PM
Oh golly! Now I am really on very thin ice! I hope Gay comes home soon! I never studied ornithology and as it turns out I seem to have a tin ear.... Howie, is there a pseudo phonetic descr ...

-- posted by Cottage_Garden


43.   Jun 7, 1998 2:44 PM
Barbara, nothing is much worse than a Grackle. Mynas are dulcet by comparison. Also quieter.

-- posted by Howie


42.   Jun 5, 1998 2:10 PM
Hi Howard! Gay is away for a few days so I am babysitting her column. She'll have to tell you about the euonymous, I'm afraid....

Does that mean the mynas sound better or worse?

Barbara Ma ...


-- posted by Cottage_Garden





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