Flirting With Disaster

This is best done while in bars or at parties. While it can be a boost to your ego, I never take recreational flirting seriously. As with the above-mentioned waiter, I know I am just one in a line of girls the man in question is working his charm on. Recreational flirting is not damaging to a relationship (old or new) – it’s just a practice run. One that sometimes can lead to some highly-charged sex if your partner sees you through the eyes of someone else.

Forbidden Flirting

This is a no-no. It includes flirting with your girlfriends’ guys, your boss, your priest, etc. – you get the idea. Forbidden flirting is unethical and should never be entertained. There are plenty of guys to go around without us flirting with the off-limit ones.

The Wandering Eye Flirting

You’ve been with your guy for months. Things have settled down to a predictable tempo. The sex, while still great, is also not that surprising anymore. You know all his orgasm faces. He knows that you hate your upper thighs and that you are ticklish right behind your knees. Then one day at lunch, you run into a guy with whom you have shared recreational flirting for years. You join him, start tilting your head when he talks, start playing with your hair, possibly tell an off-color joke or two and…what are you doing?? STOP IT. While this is a major ego boost, it is not that the flirtee is seeing something in you that your partner has forgotten about. More often than not, he has probably picked up on your boredom and is closing in. If you carry on, especially if there is alcohol involved, this can only lead to…

Flirting Gone Too Far

The line between FGTF and the WEF is very hard to discern. This type of flirting occurs typically right before you are about to do something you won’t be able to take back. It involves anything from the lingering hand on his arm (or vice versa) to a stolen kiss or even a grope or two in the hallway outside the bathrooms, where you go just in case anyone who knows you is watching. True, it is not cheating necessarily (well, maybe it is according to some definitions), but it is at the edge of good behavior and bad. Ask yourself what you would do if you saw your partner doing exactly what you

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