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Intimacy in the Bath

© Michele KayD

It's estimated that an average person uses 123 gallons of water daily. The majority of that is surely for bathing, an intimate, daily ritual many of us take for granted. My suggestion for conservation: shower or take a bath with your honey as often as possible!! This not only can be an environmentally practical activity, but it holds full potential of being downright erotic.

To further extend the theme, consider all the soothing qualities and forms of bathing. The simplest of all is probably the shower, followed by the sensual experience of relaxing in a bubble bath. Beyond the basics, there's the more indulgent bathing "sports" of taking a Sauna, soaking in a Jacuzzi or hot tub, or absorbing the luxury of a steam shower. Finally, the most elite and rare treats of all are those which, ironically, only nature can provide: dipping into a natural hot/mineral spring or submerging yourself under a cascading waterfall. Such images they conjure up!!

Unfortunately for most of us, the further down that list, the more fantasy-only the labels become. The good news is that even the very simple, basic shower or bath can be every bit as enticing as that waterfall scene. We can create tropical exoticism in the luxury of home.

Suggestions: Start with a trip to a quality bath shop. Look for bath or shower gels, lotions, soaps, salts; bubble bath; or massage oils. Don't forget about sponges, bath mits, massaging tools, loofahs, etc. Don't worry guys, once you enter a shop, it'll all make perfect sense. If not, just ask! Try Bath & Body Works, The Body Shop, Victoria's Secret, or Crabtree & Evelyn. These are the most common stores found virtually everywhere. *note: many are also on-line!

Be conscious of the scents of your selections. Opt for Aromatherapy products whenever possible. Depending on the mood you're aiming to create, aphrodisiac aromas would be a plus. (try lavender, sandalwood, rose, vanilla, jasmine, or cinnamon) Also, consider customizing Sunscents: essential oil blends connected with your unique "astrological signature." Three scents are combined using your sun, moon, and rising signs. (check the link's specific listing of basic herbal scents ideal for each sign)

My personal recommendations for products and places:

1. Calvin Klein's Obsession shower gel, lotion, and dusting powder (found at any fine department store's perfume counter)

2. "Island Passion" shower gel by Victoria's Secret Garden Collection

3. Bath & Body Works' Massage oil in "Juniper Breezes" (not a feminine-exclusive scent at all; it's actually quite sexy!)

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