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January is slowly drawing to a close, and in its place is the allure of the upcoming romantic holiday. Lacy red or black lingerie, heart-shaped images, boxes of chocolate truffles galore, and roses in a multitude of colors suddenly appear everywhere we go. As Valentine's Day symbols begin to float through the air, lovers and single hopefuls alike turn thoughts to pure romance. To get into the proper mindset, this week will begin the official countdown to V-day!
Step one is to open up to the power and possibilities of love and to all its infintite chances. This poem speaks volumes on the risk of loving. There is also a famous poem proclaiming much the same message. The abbreviated excerpt reads: To Love is to risk not being loved in return . . . . The greatest hazzard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing . . . may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love, live." (Unknown) View the full version on this page. Even a hopeless romantic will admit that there is no greater risk in life than opening oneself up to the possibility of love. There are always two potential outcomes facing the romantic risk-taker: success (finding a fulfilling relationship) or forfeit (abandoning a relationship which is best left as a learning step). Even rejections and breakups are not missteps, they're active steps. There is no such word as failure when it comes to taking a chance on love. Every attempt is one step closer, one learning experience nearer, one strengthening lesson to prepare for the real thing. Anyone who seeks love whole-heartedly is not only brave, but also deserving of the most meaningful path that life offers us all.
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