Facing the Holidays Alone

It's that time of year again, the annual holiday bombardment, filled with parties, dinners, social gatherings of all types and sizes. Being part of a couple can be trying enough. There's the issue of dividing time up with both families, deciding where to eat, getting gifts for everyone and then some, picking which parties to attend, etc. But, if you are not currently involved in a relationship, or if you're recently split from one, it's also a tough time to get through without feeling lonely and depressed.

Not being coupled during all the various gatherings can leave singles feeling left out, sad, and empty inside. It's difficult to face going it alone on family and social events. But the holidays can and should still be a magical, special time of year for everyone, despite your partnership status. Whether you are divorced, separated, broke up, or still seeking a soulmate, you are still entitled to happiness and joy. You don't need to be paired to have an enjoyable season. And, you certainly don't need to spend the holidays alone or depressed during the next couple of months. Get out and about, and create yourself a merry little holiday season.

Some suggestions for making the holidays merry even if you are single:

Pair up with another single friend to attend company or social parties. This way, you will both have someone to talk with, laugh with and stay occupied, without fixating on the awkwardness you feel when the couples snuggle and dance. Be each other's support system.

Get involved in decorating and baking cookies, shopping and wrapping gifts...listening to seasonal music, watching classic holiday movies, etc...keep up the spirit to lift your spirits.

Take time out to pamper yourself after a long day of hitting the malls for gift shopping and such. Make some hot cocoa topped with whipped cream, soak in a peppermint aromatherapy bath to refresh, or listen to some festive tunes!

Adopt a pet this winter blah season to perk up your mood and lessen your lonelies.

Sponsor a child to focus your love energies this festive season. There is one great on-line organization with lists of children awaiting some TLC. Become a Christmas or year-long Angel Mom or Dad On Earth.

Consider attending a holiday dance or "mixer" event just for singles. You never know!! You just may end up with a budding relationship, and the least you'll find is a night of fun. Again, consider going with another single buddy.

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