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GrandParents as Daily Childcare Providers

© Deborah A Licht

In today's world there is a growing need for safe quality childcare, many parents turn to their own parents for their day care provider needs. There are no set rules for Grandparent Childcare Providers. I am the sole childcare provider for my granddaughter and have been she was two days old. I have made and learned by some mistakes. The overall experience of taking on the childcare provider role and being GRAMMIE at the same time has been very rewarding. I have an unconditional love bond with my granddaugter, I've been involved daily in her development, and I've grown in many positive ways. For brand new Grandparents taking on this responsibility is both a privileged joy and a parenting stress. Setting daily routines will help keep stress levels low. A grandparent as a childcare provider is taking on a full time job. Sit down with your child and plan out daily schedules, such as times you are on duty, meaning your work day begins at __ and ends at __. Communication is the key to all relationships, so listen to and carry out the guidelines and wishes your grandchild's parents have expressed. DO NOT dismiss their parental control or rights. Try to create a working relationship with the parents, compromising on the little issues.

Providing daycare in your child's home is a plus, everything needed for the grandchild is there. Going to and from your grandchild's house does also provide you with some down time to reflect on the day, much like going to a regular job. You may feel the need to do housekeeping while you are in your child's house, making you the caretaker of the house as well as your grandchild. To avoid the extra stress be very clear about what housekeeping duties you are willing to take on and try to keep your energies focused on the child care activities. Most grandparents provide the daycare in their own homes, which is a comfortable environment for both grandparent and grandchild. The grandparent has time to take care of their own housework while the grandchild is napping or involved in an activity. The grandchild is still in a secure situation. One that will help them develop skills, giving the child more opportunities to grow and explore. Personally, I like taking care of my grandchild in my own home, she has learned to respect my things, has adapted to schedules, and has had planned daily activities which have helped her prepare for kindergarten. Sarah also has been introduced to gardening, petcare, general house chores, computer skills, and my friends which has helped her to be outgoing, cooperative, and compassionate.