Grand Parent Wisdom

Your grandchild is born and you automatically receive the title of "Grandmother" and/or "Grandfather". Here is a guide for earning the "Grand" title and how you can develop a nuturing bond with your grandchild that will benefit both of you.

1} GrandParents need to remember they are not the parent of the grandchild, do not undermined or take away the parental authority of the mother or father. If Mom or Dad says "NO", Grammie or Papa says "NO", too.

2} GrandParents should discuss discipline and the set rules or routines for the grandchildren with the parents. Then the GrandParent should be consistent in enforcing the parental guidelines, and only use discipline when the GrandParent is the one in charge. Never hit, spank, use fowl language, or call your grandchildren degrading names.

3} GrandParents should set their own fair household rules for the grandchild and again be consistant in enforcing them. Child safety is a must, so if you have to child proof your home for a younger grandchild do it. Set a good example and teach respect for your home and belongings early and again be consistent.

4} Take the time to read to, play a game, decorate for a holiday or go for a walk. Planning ahead and scheduling appropriate activities, outings, and interesting things to do for grandchildren visits or stay overs will insure a memorable good time is shared by all. Also, remember to plan some down time for yourself and quiet playtime for the grandchildren.

5a} Listen intently to whatever your grandchild is sharing. Communicate your response in a positive and upbeat way. Answer all questions honestly and straight forward. Praise your grandchildren's efforts and accomplishments. Be supportive and understanding with their disappointments. 5b} Speak and talk about current issues, shared interests, and activities approbriate for the grandchild's age group. Avoid talking about your health and daily tasks or upsets. Again keep the conversation positive and light.

6} GrandParents know a lot of family history, share family pictures and memories. Tell stories about yourself and relatives. Share your favorite moments spent with their parent when their parent was their age. Continue the ethnic heritage and family traditions you celebrated as a child.

7} Teach your grandchildren what you know, introduce them to your hobbies, allow them to help garden, cook, take care of the pets, even help paint and wallpaper. Sharing your world with them gives them the chance to experience and try new things.

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