Is our suffering a curse from God, or more to the point, a curse upon our own selves? A God of mercy, a God of compassion, a God of justice, and equality. A God of beauty, and passion, the true depth of love Himself... could also be a God that denies these wonders, simply based on man's assumption, that if he does not suffer as Jesus did he will surly burn in Hell? Could we at this point label God as rigid? The One who can create the basic structure of life (DNA) to such a specific degree, is unbending in ideology?
I have no place within my mind, and heart, to see a God of such ironhanded complacency. I can not infer that man, no matter where he may slant on such issues - small or large - in the existence of the universe, and the destinies of mankind, is designed to suffer under the Will of a God whom created Will in the first place. It does not make sense. On the contrary, the only power causing the suffering of mankind is mankind himself.
Therefore, if man follows the teachings of the Christian, Jewish, Moslem, Hindu, Buddhist, and any other religious doctrine, he is by clear presence defying the Will of God. Because, the Will of God is to be free. Free of hardships, free of constraints, free of ignorance (the true sin). The opposite of all these things are found in the foundation of the church.