Besides, just like we can't think straight when we're feeling defensive and afraid, horses can't either. So ... trying to teach a horse something while the horse is feeling afraid or defensive is fruitless. Nothing is learned while a horse is in this state of mind. It takes longer in the long run by doing things this forceful way then by take the time the HORSE needs to begin with and allowing the horse to override its instincts and learn to THINK.
Make more sense now? I really, REALLY would like to be able to help you guys get through this so your horse can be a positive addition to your family. But when 2 people (sharing training responsibilities) are working in the same area with two opposite means of actions, nothing is going to be accomplished and with the hard-wiring of the horse, the horse is going to short out big time. Your horse has already shorted out and we're trying to bring him back to some semblance of equine sanity. Consistency, consistency, consistency with encouraging training -- not force (chains, physical punishment, tying him up so he can't move, etc.) ... Driving him AWAY from me (or Sue, you, etc) when she's exhibiting threatening behavior is what is going to cause her mind to kick in and start thinking. In equine social circles (they have strong, strong social hierarchies) the horse higher up in rank is the only one that causes another, lower-ranking, horse to move and direct the hooves. So - we act as a higher ranking horse simply by causing your horse to move his feet AWAY and then directing his direction, speed, etc. The clicker work is to help him become conditioned to by-pass that instinctual flight reaction to a point where he automatically THINKS through a questionable situation. Happier horse. Safer horse. A horse one would want to be with because they're alot more savvy about their environment than we are and can keep us out of danger when needed and allowed.)
Have a good day, Charlie! Hope this helped.
