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Like Mother Like Daughter


© April Lee Schmidt

My last article was a humorous look at the ways I am slowly becoming like my Mom. All joking aside, it occurred to me that my own daughter is perhaps growing to be more like me everyday. This may not necessarily be a good thing.

I have always said my daughter (Sam) is one of my heroes. She is willing to try all sorts of new things. I remember the time she first tried oysters on the half shell. Her brother said “she is either the bravest girl ever or the craziest”. She is fearless at amusement parks, trying the fastest roller coasters, and enjoying the highest and fastest rides. She deals with all her health issues head on and with more than an optimistic outlook.

Unfortunately, I am afraid she has inherited a bit of my social shyness. Oh, she goes to school dances, she’s a member of the church choir, and attends Sunday School. However, when it comes to approaching potentially new friends she shies away from saying the first hello or striking up a conversation. While I can sympathize with this type of anxiety, I am hard pressed to come up with suggestions on ‘getting over it’.

The only idea I came up with so far was to ‘get over ‘it myself. Perhaps if she sees me making the attempt she will feel encouraged to follow suit. I have heard it said that a mother would do anything for her child. In fact, I have said those very words myself. I am also a firm believer in children learning by example.

My first step so far was to check on line. I was surprised to find a great number of Internet sites on shyness. ‘The shyness homepage’ at www.shyness.com is a list of resources on information and services pertaining to shyness. And so, I begin my quest to be the first to reach my hand out in friendship for my daughter.

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