What Makes a Belly Dancer's Blood Boil?
to get some pictures of yourself wearing a beautiful new costume. Or go to a weeklong belly dance retreat hosted by a dancer who inspires you.
If all else fails, take a cue from the movie Network. Fling open your window and shout, "I'm mad as hell and I can't take it any more!" Your neighbors may think you're a bit eccentric, but the physical release that comes from shouting will make you feel a little better.
The Most Important Thing to Remember
All of the anger you feel when these things happen can spoil the joy you feel from dancing. You can start to burn out.
Most of us originally started belly dancing because we were looking for something fun to do. And we continued because we liked it. But when we're ready to erupt in a shower of hurtling sequins or coins, it's easy to forget that it's supposed to be fun!
Whenever you feel completely consumed with anger and frustration, take a deep breath. Reflect on why you continue to dance despite the stress. Remember your favorite audience reactions, imagine yourself dressed in your best costume, reflect on the exhilaration of the creative expression, and think fond thoughts of the friends you have met through dance.
Remember, it's supposed to be fun!
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