In the steamy, hot and balmy Christmases experienced in many Australian towns, the combination of alcohol and the meeting of family members that have avoided each other for most of the year can create a fatal cocktail.
Lifeline director the Reverend Wayne Sanderson told the ABC's Narida Farha that Christmas "often takes place when families who perhaps should not be attempting to get together for the festive season try to present a happy and united family unit. "There's a certain compulsion and unnaturalness about that and maybe they're just not good at being together, and so things can get out of hand there." 1.
The co-ordinator of the Gold Coast Domestic Violence Service, Betty Taylor said over the Christmas holiday period the service expects a 30 per cent increase in calls seeking assistance in relation to domestic violence. "We believe sometimes Christmas can put a strain on the family where people can have, I suppose, unreasonable expectations of what Christmas and family time together might mean," Ms Taylor said. 2.
If Christmas means black eyes, broken bones and constant fear, it may be worth considering spending Christmas apart. Reduce the stress by not over-spending, limiting alcohol intake and not being afraid to call the police if violence erupts. Say no to abuse and make 2002 the year that you reclaim your life.
If you need someone to talk to during the Christmas season or at any time try the new National Men's Helpline on 1300 789 978.
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