Solitude

In fact, most of us feel that way, when we're under pressure. But the fact is, we need people. And people need us. No matter how much pain and sorrow we may undergo in many of our relationships, this dismay is much needed in our lives.

It is hard for us to believe that we need other people. We are brought up to deem that we must be strong and independent. Although there will always be times when we need our own personal space, we must (in order to lead a fulfilling life), realize that building relationships with others is essential for our self-esteem, healing, and happiness.

I'm not going to tell you that trusting and loving another person is easy. It requires a level of strength to do so. You must know that there's a possibility of getting hurt when doing so. Yet there's a bigger picture in sight. Opening up to another person, despite the outcome, allows you to grow, learn, love and be loved. The risk you take is worth it. I can honestly say that all the suffering I endured from getting close to other people has been well-worth it. It has made me more complete.

So, in turn, I say three simple words-- Live and love. Life is all about loving, and loving propels us to understand life. Solitude is only temporary, but living is forever.

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